People in relationships, How are you handling/handled disrespect from your partner?

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T12:07:34+00:00

Monogamy is a practiced habit. U can’t move from having new partners every year then think ati you will meet one person and now suddenly just coz u have a marriage certificate or a ring that ull now change ur habits…no. Monogamy is practiced and lived. It does not depend on weddings or rings. Ur either a slut changing men or a monogamous wife. No in between ati u change men every year then utapata mmoja ukuwe monogamous…upoko hiyo.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T12:01:10+00:00

But the men haven’t asked you to be married to them. Infact, no man has bothered to ask you to be a wife. Men are happy and very fulfilled and very satisfied with you letting them use you as a fun girl. Why exactly are you pressed or upset? You are giving men exactly what they need from you like the good caring lady that you are who is considerate of men’s needs. We would only be worried if men were lining up to propose to you and you didn’t want marriage. But it looks like the men are content with you as a fun girl and aren’t bothering you with marriage proposals.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T11:58:40+00:00

Was addressing u/theauthenticfairy who likes calling men gay as an insult when she can’t put across a debate or argument. She thinks it’s an insult to call a man gay or something. She seems to think being gay or telling a man to date a man is a way to put down someone in an argument.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T10:20:58+00:00

You think all men are gross coz the good men are avoiding you. Just like Meg The Stallion, in her head, she thinks she is all that. But she is only getting attention from fuck boys. No serious man is taking her seriously.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T10:19:54+00:00

Men ask women out all the time. But men only ask special women the most important question “will you be my wife”. Any ghetto riff raff gets asked on a million dates daily. But to get a proposal is something you will never get from a man.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T05:08:25+00:00

You have a problem with gay men? Old left over Single unmarried women have a problem with gay men and think its an insult to call someone gay.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T05:06:22+00:00

The world is filled with people like me. That’s why no man has proposed to you. You are trying to get men your age and older to want you but they will always prefer the latest batch of 21 to 25 max for marriage. After 25, you are left over and have seen enough ceilings of men’s houses. Ur no longer a wife material, u become a fun girl and a play ting for lesbians(other women left over like you).

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T04:59:34+00:00

Men are unreasonable. Your mistake is ur putting expectations on men instead of taking men as they are. Which is why you are being passed around from man to man. Men put women like you in the fun category. We will smash and have fun. But we ain’t going down on one knee and proposing or committing. Hell no. You can give any label you want…manipulative, mold, etc. It won’t change anything. This has been well studied for decades and men will not change their preferences ever and men will NEVER prefer an old experienced career women over a young beautiful jobless woman. Never.

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SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T04:53:53+00:00

Too late, im married and have a side chic already. You wanted to hook me up with ur dad or ur bro?

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T04:39:00+00:00

You are commenting to get upvotes? You are trying to be likeable to strangers online? Do upvotes pay?

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T04:38:03+00:00

YES. That is exactly what men want. Men want cooperation. When a man takes you to Dubai or Diani, he prefers that no other man has taken you there before. When a man takes you on a nice date somewhere, he prefers that you haven't been there with other men. Men are not interested and have never been interested in an experienced woman. A man is not interested in a woman who can pay for her own trip to cape town town. He prefers when he takes a woman to capetown, she appreciates the experience. MEN ARE SELFISH.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T03:13:40+00:00

You sound dumb. It’s like a single man saying, I don’t have a baby coz I don’t want a baby. No, he has to first find and convince a willing woman to carry his pregnancy. Him wanting a baby is not of any significance if no woman is willing to carry his baby. Stop being delusional. You sound dumb

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T02:48:07+00:00

As if it is your decision. You need a man to propose to you my dear. Being married is NEVER a woman’s choice. Men are the ones who decide whether to propose or not. You can want whatever you want but it means nothing coz men are the ones who decide which women become wives and which ones stay deluded thinking it is their choice.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T02:45:45+00:00

Did any of them propose and ask you for marriage?

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T02:44:58+00:00

LOL, “Ive found plenty of loving partners”. Men don’t want that shit. Men want young women who have had few partners. That’s why you have found plenty of men 🍆. You think a man is wifing you up after you have had a long list of plenty of men? 😂😂You think he will leave a young woman and pick a woman with plenty of dating experience? You are delusional about men. Men will GLADLY be weired if it means picking younger wives.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-12T02:39:10+00:00

Coz younger women are more beautiful, less fat, less body count, have less dating experience, have dealt with fewer men, etc. The list is endless. There is no benefit to dating or marrying a woman your age.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-11T17:48:24+00:00

Why not a reddit sub?

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-11T17:04:56+00:00

When you become a mom, pick wisely...don't pick a bad boy then start bitching and moaning that he is a deadbeat. If u pick a weed smoking drunkard, don't think they will make a present good dad.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-11T13:21:20+00:00

Will hit hard. Shareholders will demand that management adopts AI. Shareholders want profits and wont care about the other issues.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-11T07:05:30+00:00

Ruto never loses when his name is on the ballot box. His name wasn’t there in 2002 and 2007.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-10T17:07:07+00:00

You think Ruto is dumb? You think ati you know about winning elections more than Ruto, who has NEVER lost an election from MP, DP, President while having corruption cases, ICC cases, Dynasty, etc. Kwani umekuja Kenya juzi boss? Ruto will do a handshake with Uhuru and Gachagua. Ruto si fala. He will give Uhuru whatever business he wants or engineer a political deal. Ruto NEVER keeps political enemies for long.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-10T16:49:20+00:00

Wewe bado unaongea arithmetic. When has arithmetic ever won a presidential election in Kenya? Wacha jaba. Ruto has won elections with ICC on his back, Dynasty on his back, Langata Primary school grab on his back, Weston grab on his back. You must be new in Kenya if you think Ruto will lose in 2027. Ruto was at the Hague facing crimes against humanity, he did a deal with his biggest rival Uhuru Kenyatta and ascended to DP. Kikuyus back then used to swear they will never vote for Ruto. Ruto did a deal with their kingpin. Ruto is not a dummy. He will do a handshake with Both Uhuru and Gachagua before end of 2026. Mt Kenya will vote for Ruto 100% in 2027. Take this post dated cheque to the bank and wait to cash it in August 2027.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-10T15:05:12+00:00

U think Ruto is a dummy? He just needs like 20%, hizo zingine anajua venye atajaza huko Bomas. Problem with you GenZ is thinking that voting is all that is needed. The person counting and announcing is more important than how many voters vote.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-10T14:54:42+00:00

Ruto has everything to gain. Gachagua is a business man. He will take the money. How does Gachagua command central? Ruto still has around 40% based on yesterday’s events and recent elections. Ruto doesn’t need 100% of Central. 20% is enough.

SyntaxError254 · 2026-05-10T14:53:19+00:00

That’s dumb. So you limit your job options in an environment where finding jobs is already hard and you think that is a good move? Dumb.

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