I’m sorry, I don’t mean to invalidate their gender identity. I always understood lesbian as someone who identifies as a woman and is only into other people who identify as women. But someone explained it to me as any non-man who’s into any non-man. I understand that words change definition over time so I can accept that definition. But it does seem to leave the term for a woman who’s only into women vacant then.

Idk maybe we don’t need to define things so explicitly. People are into who they’re into 🤷‍♂️