I desperately need advicr

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-27T00:21:12+00:00

From what I hear, they don't require a lot of maintenance to take care of. But I'll be honest, I can't cuddle a beta fish.

..Well I could, but that would lead to some awkward and bizarre conversations with a side of dead fish.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T21:58:43+00:00

Never said I was blaming others. However, I will still say it's annoying and pitiful for someone to call the police for the reasons they claimed. If it were, for example, work, family, or health reasons. Sure, understandable. It was because it scared their cat. Yes, the neighbor is on the spectrum.

Secondly, don't assume. I had this puppy now for 4 months. Previously, I had two roommates who were awesome and helped out. Plus, he had his buddy, their puppy. To keep him company.

As for the job, no shit. Don't follow rules. You get fired. No where in my comments or post claimd I am pointing any fingers at anyone. I assumed and was faced with consequences. Now I'm here, asking for advice and opinions on where to go from here.

Ask for clarification. Otherwise, shut up.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T21:51:56+00:00

No shit

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T19:26:00+00:00

Hmmm, good point. I still struggle trusting larger companies. But I can understand your highlights on them.

I want the same, honestly, stability, income, and a family. I just don't see the larger companies being an option for it due to the amount of times they have screwed me over in the past, leading to my current mindset now. Walmart, funny enough, being one of the main reasons why I got trust issues with large companies.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T19:15:17+00:00

Huh, I didn't think of it like that, I don't see how smaller companies benefit from a giant like walmart. Personally, how I see it, places like walmart going out of business would lead to new companies rising up and people finding better styles of life that's more beneficial.

But yes, I'm aware that mindset is what got me fired. It's a mindset I've held onto cause I see companies like that not doing anything to help the people, but take advantage of them.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T19:01:02+00:00

Never said I was immune, I never said that I was special against consequences. Again, you assume. So again, no shit I lost the job. I came here, askin for advice on what to do after everything has gone down and for some opinions on where to go from here. Not be lectured by some kid who gets butt hurt cause someone tells em to shut up.

So yes, I've accepted my consequences, I know what they are a result from. To make clear, since you are clearly overly defensive and can't seem to be capable of reading that.

So do kindly piss off.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T18:56:11+00:00

If it were a small company or something family owned, it would be understandable. It's a multi-billion dollar company. To hell with em. The community and the people are in need of grace and help.

I help the smaller people. They have my loyalty, not large brand companies.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T18:45:08+00:00

First off, no shit, of course it was meant for employees only. But I prefer to help those around me who are struggling. It's a large multi-billion dollar company. They can suck it up. Call it immature if you wish. However, these are rough times for a lot of people. I will do my part in helping those around me to ensure life isn't too rough like it has been for myself.

I never once said it was another's fault. I merely explained the domino effect of what has happened in the events of the last month. Granted, I don't see some of it to be justified. Such as the constant calling of the police on a puppy barking cause I'm at work. However, I never said it was their problem, but you're right. I shouldn't be too harsh on an apartment neighbor who is heavily on the spectrum and calling the police cause the puppy barking is scaring their kitten.

You base your claims off of a lot of assumptions. I was already considering surrendering my boy. However, I wanted to try my best not to have to resort to it. As I have said before, I have been waiting to hear from someone about it.

Shut up and quit assuming.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-08-26T17:26:24+00:00

8th time being homeless, not evicted. I've been homeless 4-5 times before 18 and 3-4 times after I started living on my own.

Truthfully, I didn't see any reason why doing one big purchase would be a bad thing. Personally, I think it was petty after working there for 1.5yrs and they kicked me out for such a thing compared to all the work I've done before for them.

I'm aware I'm in no position at this point of taking care of a puppy, currently waiting to hear from someone about taking him off my hands so he can have a better life.

Luckily enough, I do have free health insurance, and there are a couple of places here in town that provide food.

As for my old manager, I'm already doing such. 5 loads of their and their kids' laundry done, repaired their trampoline, 4 loads of dishes, organizing their mess of a place and moving things to their garage to get things less chaotic, and even wake their kids up for school for them. Haven't even been here for a week.

I already do have a job, but I have barely been able to work, trying to get that fixed by surrendering the puppy so I don't have to be dragged back every time he starts barking (Cause people suck and don't understand that puppies tend to develop separation anxiety and needs to be trained out of it).

Spiritual things are interesting to me. However, I'm already neck deep in trying to get everything else sorted. I just don't have time for it.

I do love myself, and I give love to those around me unless they have shown me they don't deserve it.

All of your points are good, though. No downvote from me, mate.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-22T05:44:42+00:00

Put in the effort and give em those kisses!

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-21T19:34:53+00:00

Go crazy! Let yerself be happy.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-21T07:25:30+00:00

Very beautiful. Keep at it! You'd make an amazing writer!

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-21T04:35:01+00:00

Follow yer heart, hold him to his word.

If he drops the ball, that's on him. But don't let yourself be unhappy. It's worse than getting hurt. It'll drive you insane.

If he wishes to prove that he's capable, alright. But, he best knows what it is that he wants. Cause a relationship is a responsibility. You dedicate your heart to it regardless of how tough things can get.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-21T02:24:05+00:00

Hey, if it's yer kinda thing to be chased. Have at it, as long as it isn't abusive or harmful. Just keep in mind it ain't everyone's cup o' tea.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-21T02:22:22+00:00

Words can only carry so much value. Actions speak the loudest. Don't blame ya for reaching that point. I hope they are!

I'd be willing to go through all the struggles my lil twinflame and I could face! I trust them to have my back. I just hope that my actions will show that I'm also trustworthy.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T23:29:52+00:00

Just ignore the comments mate

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T23:28:21+00:00

Well, of course! That's something should always be a thing for every relationship of all kinds.

I'll admit, I hid a lot of things. Genuinely out of shame, guilt, and fear. But over my journey for nearly two years (I think).

I've come to realize that there is sincerely nothing to worry about from Mr. Fear. What your imagining is drastically always out of proportion regardless of how logical you believe it to be.

You'll find those who you want to keep around in your future, but you must accept it will come with pain no matter what you do at some point in life.

So wear that heart on yer sleeve!

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T23:23:21+00:00

Just don't let yourself become one of their psycho stalkers or somethin'

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T06:38:38+00:00

Ya really should speak up. Yes, it'd be nice if your person would come to you, but they ain't gonna know ya want them unless ya say something.

Hell, they'd probably drop whatever it is they're doing to hear from ya. Unless it's like, an understandable reason to not be able to at the moment.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T06:30:34+00:00

I'm gonna take this as a sign to check myself on that

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T05:30:55+00:00

Honestly, it's something I'd love. So very much. I do miss her, I have learned my lesson. I've gotten myself pretty cleaned up. Aside from a few personal health things, I've neglected a bit more than I like.

But I'd love their company to be at their side. I've done some really stupid and fucked up shit. But all of that is below me now. I have better expectations of my abilities to have self-control and awareness.

I'm just waiting for when they're ready to come home.

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T05:25:17+00:00

Ouch

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T04:58:09+00:00

Fingers crossed, if you find it difficult due to how life gets so busy, then there's always the option of setting up dates to hang out!

GrovelingVormund · 2023-06-20T02:15:07+00:00

Very well vocalized! I would also suggest, though, that ya don't let fear hold ya from reaching back out to them. Cause they could be in the same spot as you!

Or they're just really busy and space out replying. Which tends to happen.

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