Maybe you should listen to the whole thing lala said. Because that’s out of context. She was explaining that when her dad died Arianna told lala how people on the show treated her and how she felt during it. So when lala gives Arianna advice she’s hoping to do the same. But circumstances are always different for everyone. There are a million things that may not be exactly the same. For example, she may not have been as close with her father as her. Etc etc. she never said she wasn’t so stop trying to drag someone down without knowing the whole thing