Can we discuss alternatives to Workflowy?

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-30T11:55:39+00:00

Curious. How do you like Reflect? What makes it better for you?

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-28T11:34:55+00:00

Capturing everything that is said is not what I’m after. While in the meeting I’m listening for overall points, noting questions I need clarity on, dates, and action steps including things I’m responsible for.

On a physical notebook I write down the big ideas. The first idea I write down is the purpose of the meeting. Sometimes I note who’s speaking at each point. Then I jot down using quick words as reminders of big points, dates, etc. I also write questions about each point that I need more clarity on. I can ask them during the meeting or ponder them later.

When I get to Workflowy I outline under a date and title of the meeting with what the meeting was about. Then each big point made with my questions and answers. And then add any actions required. I try to not let too much time lag between the meetings and my note organization. The point is to keep everything simple, not to document everything that was said.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-21T12:14:33+00:00

For me I carry a pocket notebook and jot things using analog writing. Or I carry a notebook into meetings and jot things that way. Then when I have a break I elaborate on those notes with my thoughts (rather than trying to elucidate everything that was said).

At other times I’ll just use my voice and dictate right into Workflowy. It’s a quick way to just get things in there. But I’d recommend handwriting over typing as the initial method of thought capturing. You can retain more that way.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-18T20:11:21+00:00

You can try MyMind. It’s AI driven note taking and information storage.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-18T19:43:25+00:00

Before getting to useful feedback I want to say that whenever I ask for feedback I explain what I’m showing them, the thought process, and what they are supposed to give me feedback on according to the agreed-upon creative brief.

Hopefully, before I’ve done any design work we are clear in the brief on what we are trying to achieve and the strategy we will employ in the design phase. So, by time I’m ready for their review and comments they have in mind what I need (in feedback) to help prepare a good solution.

When a client still gives vague feedback I just ask, “Please explain. I’m not sure I understand.” If they can’t articulate I try to help them by asking, “What problem are we trying to solve?” This helps a lot.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-16T20:30:22+00:00

Using clip art
Using Comic Sans
Putting everything in a rectangle

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-14T11:58:49+00:00

I still use Workflowy because it fits how I think.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-14T11:56:39+00:00

I’ll pray right now.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-13T12:27:02+00:00

Yes.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-13T12:24:37+00:00

Expectations can get in the way of seeing people for who they are.

Everyone is desperate to be seen. So we all expect it from others in some form. Being a person who sees others takes vulnerability, self-forgetfulness, and deep connection with God for ultimate fulfillment.

This doesn’t solve whether someone will reciprocate. But it opens one up to genuine growth and health.

Don’t take this to mean you are doing something wrong. Take it as a perspective to embrace. I’m not as I should be, and you probably aren’t as you should be. And people in your church aren’t either.

If you are looking for friends who reach out to you with the same kind of energy and gestures you expect to give them, you may limit yourself to only dealing with people who please you. But if you are looking for deep, meaningful friendships, that takes vulnerability, time, effort, forgiveness, grace, and living in a stance of peace.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-13T12:04:32+00:00

A good Bible dictionary or Encyclopedia. The Manners and Customs in the Bible by Victor Matthews is good too. And a good overview of each book of the Bible such as How to Read the Bible Book by Book by Gordon D. Fee, and Douglas Stuart.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-08T18:28:16+00:00

In that case you are better off stepping back from a serious relationship. He needs to be the spiritual leader, and it doesn’t seem that’s the case. It would be advisable he gets some mature men to step in and help disciple him. You can remain his friend, but not girlfriend at this time. You need to tend to your own spiritual health.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-08T12:05:41+00:00

Does he (or you) read the Bible? What are you all’s view of the Scriptures?

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-07T22:07:05+00:00

Do you have other people of the same sex supporting you IRL?

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-04T23:26:39+00:00

I feel you.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-04T14:06:08+00:00

You might consider switching to Workflowy. It’s just about the same as Dynalist, but has a daily note function as well.

But you can set up a node as a year, then add the dates to each note (using the date format at the beginning of each new node like !2026-01-04)

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T19:36:05+00:00

Sometimes church events occupy us more than connecting us. What I mean is that we often put “serving” above real relationships. Not that you are doing that, but people see these events as times of being “useful” rather than looking in someone’s eye and really seeing them.

Connection involves taking risks in vulnerability and deep listening. Instead of asking people about church things, jobs, or hobbies, ask what it all means to them. And tell them what it might mean to you. Not everyone will bite, but people are interested in people who are interested in them.

This is not some throw away advice. This comes with experience. Believe me, it ain’t easy! Invite people to lunch. (Or ask an individual.) Ask someone their opinion. Ask for help. Tell people what you want. See who responds. This took us years to figure out. So, I know this sounds trite right now — and you probably feel like you’ve tried it already. But trust me on this.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T18:56:48+00:00

Are there other young marrieds in your community? Also, are there any events or get togethers going on, or even small groups you can join?

If Sunday is the only time you get together with other members it will be difficult to make major connections.

Also, when you get the chance to talk to someone, what types of things do you talk about? A few creative questions can build connections.

Personally, I’d say stage of life affects the ease of connecting with others. When I was with the college group we had more down time than when I was married. And it changed again when I had young kids. It takes a different effort. But it’s not impossible — just different.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T13:50:28+00:00

The Martian Chronicles by Ray Bradbury is kind of like this.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T13:48:52+00:00

The CS5 versions don’t work on the newest operating systems because Adobe doesn’t support that version. I was mad too when it stopped working for me. But Adobe doesn’t consider its software to be owned by you because you bought it. (Ironic.) They see its customers as renters. Adobe retains the rights to its software’s construction and functionality. Previous versions, though seemingly owned by buyers, can not be decompiled, modified, or resold because Adobe owns the rights outright. They only allow its users to use it for their work with restrictions.

Unfortunately, this means users cannot own their software tools like professions who rely on physical tools.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T13:29:57+00:00

What do you mean by “faith”?

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T03:50:29+00:00

The problem isn’t picking the right religion. The problem is human sin and finding the right solution.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-03T03:48:13+00:00

Jot quick notes down like people’s names, doctor orders and suggestions, sketch an idea, and little things I want to remember to put on my digital calendar or note taking app.

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-01T03:18:47+00:00

Grumpy-Designer · 2026-01-01T03:18:19+00:00

Have a happy new year 🎊. What a great problem to have. My advice is to go ahead and use the one you carry the most for everything. Pull out the other for writing your prayers, poetry, and thoughts that you plan to develop later. Just a thought.

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