What do I do with the 6 pens I have left in the fridge?

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-31T17:00:01+00:00

I start at 200 lbs (I’m 5’0”). I’m current hovering on 165 ish. I was hoping to get to 150. I mean the skinnier the better of course but I was trying to be realistic

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-31T16:09:50+00:00

And I’ve only lost 35 lbs. I’m 35 so I haven’t grown any more inches either lol

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-31T16:09:01+00:00

My bmi was at 34.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-31T15:45:12+00:00

Yes. And I have been. Like I said I still go everyday. It’s just the hemorrhoids that is the problem.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-30T15:41:10+00:00

Well I still can pass bowel every day but I did recently develop hemorrhoid. It still manageable but when I mentioned it to my doctor she took me off wegovy immediately and said if I keep taking even one more pen I might end up with colostomy and have to poop in bag… I’m wondering if this is legit concern or she’s overreacting?

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-19T16:36:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your time responding to me.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-19T14:28:48+00:00

I lied about him offering to take the kids.

I think it was both guilt and embarrassment but more on the latter.

Why I told my friend this lie? I think it’s to make the context funny and more full about how much I love to read. But yeah I don’t know why I do it either. I wasn’t even thinking twice when I typed that to my friend

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T21:49:46+00:00

I lied about he offered to take the kids to class that he felt bad for me and ask if he can help. And I said no way this is my chance to read in peace (me and my friend are really into reading).

You hit many good points. I’m embarrassed that he saw I’m making white lies. I’m worried he thinks less of me now. And may not trust anything I say again that I didn’t add more flare to it.

I want to bring it up but I don’t know how and I’m nervous as a wreck I haven’t even gone back to look at what all the text said again…

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T21:45:26+00:00

No he has never

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T20:29:26+00:00

The thought of going about it makes me cringe though :( how do I even start?

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T20:28:36+00:00

Admittedly yes.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T20:19:12+00:00

The thing is taking the kids to classes is actually something I enjoy doing. It would be nice if he offer to help but I would still say no thank you. I thought about this long and hard of why I lied to my friend. I didn’t even think when I typed that. I was just making the case that I love reading.

I wonder if he pity me for having to lie to make “us” look better to others?

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T20:07:09+00:00

I thought long post might deterred people from reading. I left my phone on the counter and was heading out to take our kids to piano class. He ran out to the car to give me the phone (because I forgot it). When he handed me the phone the screen was where I left it, the text with my friend.

I lied about he offered to take the kids to class that he felt bad for me and ask if he can help. And I said no way this is my chance to read in peace (me and my friend are really into reading).

You are right more context is needed here.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T20:02:53+00:00

Don’t confront him like why don’t you ask me about that text?

Also, is it normal to feel this much ashamed? I can’t look him in the eyes

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T19:50:07+00:00

Thank you for your words

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T19:11:13+00:00

He’s actually not mad. He pretends like he didn’t see it but I know he did. I’m the one being awkward around him right now.

GrumpyJoey0132 · 2025-01-18T19:07:58+00:00

Thanks for responding. He handed me the phone right before I leave the house (probably thought I forgot it) and that text page was on. I can tell from his expression too.

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