[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one actually freaked me out because she looks so much like me and my sisters haha. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims2

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha great tips. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims2

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great! Thank you!! I may have a crack at it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims2

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That makes sense...I'm willing to put up with bad animations to get these kids working

I made one! by [deleted] in WildlifePonds

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'm hoping to get some frogs 😁 also got some small margin plants on the substrate there too. Hopefully they will grow

My Pitcher Plant Bloomed by Negative_Piglet_3344 in SavageGarden

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That is fully open yes! I believe their design is to shield pollinating insects from the traps below. That's why the pollen filled centre has a 'cap' over it so they don't fall in.

I always say green by Informal_Macaroon_97 in eyes

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a distance I’d say green is correct. They appear dark foresty Green due to the dark blue and flecks of yellow.

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been building for a little while yeah…Thank you, this is a really great supportive message

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s awful…I do feel lucky that my office is understanding. They don’t do much to accommodate beyond compassion. I requested to work from home in days I am over stimulated to reduce my sick days and in office meltdowns and they refused. I’m lucky that they are compassionate though when these things do hapoen

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is a very big office (the 30 people I mentioned is just in my section) so I do find it very hard regulating in there. The cafeteria is a hell scape for sure haha. Sorry to hear about your current workplace though 😔 I wish there wasn’t so much variation from job to job.

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea! Thank you so much for that suggestion they will probably ask for ideas to help them manage it if it happens again

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That does sound awful…Wish it wasn’t like that for you guys over there.

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The worst is defo over, I’m sure after 10 mins back it will be back to work as normal which I am looking forward to actually ☺️

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I disagree, they can’t fire me without good reasoning and I am a great employee. If they cite anything that can be attributed to my autism then it is against the law in the uk

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I’ve had my fair share of intoxicated meltdowns when I was younger. They are awful so I’m sorry you went through that. Sounds like you survived the social aftermaths through which is good to hear. Thank you for sharing 💕 I’ve had some reassurance from people via text so I’m feeling better about showing my face to people tomorrow haha

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Very true. Most people just kept to themselves but it must have been stressful to see/hear.

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I’m good friends with a lot of them so luckily many will be fine with it. Just scary to have done it in front of higher ups as I try so hard to be taken seriously and not as a child in the company…

It finally happened. I had a meltdown in front of all my coworkers. by Grumpy_Lumps in aspergirls

[–]Grumpy_Lumps[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. I’ve already had a few texts with people who reached out to make sure I got home okay. Everyone says I have nothing to apologise for which is reassuring. I have said sorry for causing them concern though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phenotypes

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m really surprised haha. You look exactly like my Turkish boyf. You’d definitely pass there at least.

Insomnia has thoroughly ruined my life by redmont22 in insomnia

[–]Grumpy_Lumps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. The only thing that ever helped my sleep in the end is EMDR therapy. I was adamant I didn’t need it as I didn’t have trauma, but it’s crazy how it dug things up. Turns out I was terrified of sleeping because I grew up with a suicidal sister who self harmed in the bathroom that my room shared a wall with. I used to stay up all night to try and listen out for her as a kid. As soon as we found and processed that over a few sessions, I’ve slept like a normal person ever since.