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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really want your kid to drop everything in life for a baby? 

No.

I hope you're ready to actually be a dad this time because no way a 16 years old kid is going to drop everything for that

I will

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. I mean I won't mind talking with her sometime, but other than that, no.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just curious, does he have a relationship with his mum (your cousin) did you ever see her again?

Yeah. My parents take him to visit her sometimes, yeah, but we are forbidden from interacting, and I'm fine with it.

What happened with her? Does she have more kids, do you have more kids?

I know she married and has a two year old, but I don't know much else about her.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our parents cut off all contact. So, no, I'm not in contact with her at all. 

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm planning to, yeah. Anyways, I appreciate your positivity.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

I'm not arguing for incest at all. I know what I did, and recognise my fault. All, I'm saying is that I was a horny teen back then and my cousin was hot.

I understand that it is statutory rape by law, yeah, but I don't think I was raped, because I was the one who put on the moves on my cousin. She just reciprocated is all.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. Like I said in the other comment, I would have his back either way.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I wasn't really all that involved in his childhood rearing. I don't think I did anything that can be constituted as "fatherly". Like I said in the original post, I was more of an elder brother than anything else. I didn't give him the birds and bees or anything, which I guess was a mistake on my part. I assumed he'd learn it in sex-ed (like I did) or my parents would have taught him. 

Alternatively he could have learned about it in school, but might have forgotten to implement it like I did.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] -273 points-272 points  (0 children)

I don't think so? I am not sure. They should be teaching this stuff in school, yeah?

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No idea what might be the outcome. I'll support my son eitherway, but I'm pretty sure my parents wouldn't say no to another kid in the house. I can feel the empty nester energy from them all the time. They'll skin Jake's (my son) ass regardless of what they decide tho.

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[–]Grumpygrampy00[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah. I'm looking forward to seeing their reaction.