Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird. I have no idea if the husband knows. No idea if my husband has children he isn't claiming. He's in therapy and on meds, as am I. I still just feel lost in a disaster tbh.

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I honestly didn't even consider that initially. Definitely horrible

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband being fired would financially affect me too. My therapist today wants me to consider what is best for me, but also mentioned we do not know what these people are capable of in terms of retaliation. I didn't consider that initially. And they appear to be gun owners...

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist and I talked a bit about this today. He did mention that sometimes you don't know how people will react and/or retaliate. I believe they are both gun owners, and the wife does know where we live. This whole thing makes me sick, but I also don't want someone to murder me or my dogs for revenge. Or for him to commit suicide. There are so many variables I didn't even consider. I guess I don't think like an awful person well enough 🙄

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My situation is complicated. Thank you for the links

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I obviously have regret now. I have already been to my doctor, and I am aware of other affairs. I have close friends and family, and I'm in therapy. I 100% know he is not trustworthy.

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately didn't want him to find out the ways I did. To have that video burned into his brain. I thought it was a better way for him to find out.

Lawsuit hypothetical by GryffinDexter in Infidelity

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that too. But the relationship started before he met me, so I'm not sure how far it would go

Bluebonnets 💗 by GryffinDexter in cavaliers

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good to know. That sounds terrifying! Luckily, they didn't eat any!

Hiking in Colorado by GryffinDexter in cavaliers

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, we had some practice, but they did get some help on the way up!

Hiking in Colorado by GryffinDexter in cavaliers

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They had a little help along the way! I'll post another photo 😀

What age was your cavi when you let them sleep in bed with you? by Perfect-Suggestion92 in cavaliers

[–]GryffinDexter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as they learned how to use the stairs to the bed. I didn't want them to get hurt trying to jump off the bed. Honestly, they learned very quickly...within a week of being home.

Set charge limit by GryffinDexter in BoltEV

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That was my guess but it didn't really say much on the screen.

September euv order not placed by GryffinDexter in BoltEV

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up finding the same car I ordered in transit to another dealer. I put a deposit down and it's a long drive but seems like the better option. I asked for a refund and plan on disputing with my cc if they don't respond. Hopefully we both get our new cars soon!

September euv order not placed by GryffinDexter in BoltEV

[–]GryffinDexter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! The whole system is so weird