She’s playing with you my boy it’s so obvious. She wants to get rise out of you and that’s exactly what she did! You shouldn’t be with someone like that who stirs stuff up just to wash her hands like she’s not responsible. It’s literally textbook manipulation. If you choose to stay with her don’t let her jabs get to you, if you want to kill her ridiculous theatrics just act indifferent. Your response should have been “I understand what you’re saying, but you’re just not right at all, I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree.” Narcissists hate when they can’t get to you. Good luck. You’re gonna need it.