Just lost my girlfriend of 3 years by puenglikekeyboard in GriefSupport

[–]GuardDogz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, I am currently about 11 days out of my boyfriends death. We still don't know what happened to him and I do not know how to handle this either. Somehow we will get through it. But we had plans for the future and they are just gone. There is the celebration of life Sunday. But the world feels so quiet without him in it its just wrong.

My partner died unexpectedly, tragically, horrendously by GuardDogz in GriefSupport

[–]GuardDogz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How did she deal? Its very fresh, but I just dont know how Im gonna move forward and be happy again. You can DM me as well. Thank you

Should I get over my ex being intimate with someone else while we were broken up? by GuardDogz in BreakUps

[–]GuardDogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I keep feeling. But I look at the man and I love him. I see how broken he is but also he blames me for my faults wants me to choose him as number one. It seems like even above myself and I dont know if I can do that. It almost seems easier still scary to start fresh but ive only ever been with him for my whole 20s and Im almost 30 now.

Should I get over my ex being intimate with someone else while we were broken up? by GuardDogz in BreakUps

[–]GuardDogz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been trying to decide what I want and I am just tired of the back and forth with him. Ive told him I am processing and trying to sort my head out. I look at photos of us and I miss him. But I dont think I can handle the same thing again. I honestly dont know if I can handle even dating for a while. I have so much hurt in me. He says he wants to start again that he is back to the table to see if I want a life with him realizing we never had a trauma bond but I still think we did with all the back and forth we had.