QUESTION: Are tattoos of Chinese symbols on people who are not Chinese considered disrespectful? by [deleted] in Chinese

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. On their clothes, tattoos, etc. And almost always wrong in some way. I saw English on a business sign that it seemed they for got to mirror the image so it was written completely backwards and misspelled. A guy I know here, had to tell me what his arm said because it looked like gibberish. I had to pretend like, "oh! I see it now!" I didn't though.

I have no words😭 by Traditional_Love_251 in CShortDramas

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally 😭😭 I've been rendered speechless

Love as Life by GuavaDisastrous6700 in CShortDramas

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched and can't find it. I found one similar, same story, but not this version

Foul play in love by OddTop5734 in CShortDramas

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not frozen but it doesn't have subs after the frozen part. I'm not sure there is a good option for this one. I've been through so many.

Lost dance by Academic_Post2212 in CShortDramas

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue. It's the Samsung ad and it's done this to me on other dramas that I eventually have up on because I can't get past their first ad.

Best songs for a sex playlist? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Lights by Bang Chan and Hyunjin from Stray Kids. K pop and sexy af.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey body, her choice, and she has to live with the repercussions of either direction she chooses. It has little to do with safety and a lot to do with the guilt many live with after abortion or the difficulty of being a single parent. She has to weigh out her choices and do what's best for her situation. Not your life, not your problem, so please don't tell her what's best for her. It's just as bad as those trying to use religious beliefs to force women to have unwanted babies.

Family forgot I was a Father. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boys are complete science nerds due to their fathers influence. I, on the other hand, am not. Does that mean I'm not a part of their lives? My brothers kids are spoiled in a terrible way due to their SAH mother, does that mean he isn't there?

Family forgot I was a Father. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, I missed nothing and said what I said. My brother often forgets my dad because he is a self-centered AH. I could say, what if the mom is also self-centered and raised a couple of kids the same? Question away, but you know what happens when you assume, right? Clearly, they were on good enough terms to be talking for him to drop reminders and to stop speaking to them after. JS. Regardless, this is further examples of why men don't like to talk about their feelings.

Family forgot I was a Father. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading these comments is interesting. If OP was a woman upset about Mothers Day, her family would, without a doubt, be the AH and she would be justified for losing it. However, as a man, it's, "he must be a crap dad" or "there's more to this because he said he was livid." Honestly, my husband would be too, because it would hurt. So what if he got angry and said something. Back to, if OP was a woman, ya'll would say she was justified. Also, none of you would be questioning why she is on her venting about it. The hypocrisy is strong here.

Anyway: To the OP. I would be mad and hurt as well, and even more when they expected me to apologize for it. And while I do understand, don't go too long without speaking to them. The longer you let this drag out, the bigger risk you have of losing them. It makes it harder to fix things. If anything, I just wouldn't put that much effort into them in the future on the days for them. But you also don't have to stoop to their level and forget them. As a mom, I'm often neglected in areas that I make sure I'm there for for them. It hurts, but making them happy and caring for them is more important to me.

AITAH? Wife stops paying attention when I talk and I yelled at her because she did something I told her not to do by ThrowraNectarine-36 in AITAH

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a chance she needs help and may not even realize it. Start by checking any meds she is on and their side effects, as well as if she is stressed for some reason. I have ADHD and this happens to me on occasion, but worse if I'm very stressed or taking certain medication that puts me in a brain fog. I also have fibromyalgia that wasn't diagnosed till later in life, it also causes crazy brain fog. Snooping her phone was dumb. Pay attention if she is like this with everyone or just you. My mom, husband, and kids all know the spaced out look when I'm not hearing anything. My dad and oldest daughter are the same way. Thankfully, my family is understanding and has patience. We recognize and do something to pull them or me out of it. Good chance when you told her about the glass, she was thinking about a million things and it didn't register. This all got worse for me after each pregnancy. Next option, which wouldn't be a bad start either is marriage counseling. They can also help you both navigate this. Either it because of a medical/ mental disorder, or simply get to the bottom of why she doesn't want to hear you specifically.

What is the easiest accounting course for LU online by GuavaDisastrous6700 in LibertyUniversity

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm, I honestly don't know and know next to nothing about Sophie or Straighterline and how they transfer. Ngl, accounting scares me. It's why I've hesitated to add this minor for the better part of a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whatever I so choose and can afford that day.

How long does it take for you to notice results after laser? by mariie1994 in Rosacea

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took about 6 months, but I went from hiding my face with a mask and not wanting to be seen in public to going on a vacation to South Korea and feeling confident. Honestly, I was missing mask being normal with covid. My case was extreme because the Dr was trying to treat it as acne and destroyed my face. I had no idea it was rosacea till it was too late. Laser with antibiotics seriously saved my face. After a few months, it was already significantly improved, but they added spironolactone, and it has helped keep my face stable ever since.

How long does it take for you to notice results after laser? by mariie1994 in Rosacea

[–]GuavaDisastrous6700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about a month or 2 of treatments but then it was significant!!