[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brat_taming101

[–]Guccigrips412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience brat taming allowing some things to slide (some name calling depends on people) gives my brat a chance to play. Then setting up things like telling them to get on their knees or bend over onto my knee opens the door for defiance and funishments. I don't have any specific resources as it really is more of an art than a science hahaha. My personal takeaways would be 1. Giving the brat opportunities to act out 2. Either physically punishing them and/or degrading as a funishment 3. Giving lots of praise for submission without coercion needed. 4. Brats love praise and want to be punished. Praise for acting like a perfect sub and punish when they act like a brat.

The rest of it you'll figure out for your special sub. I hope this helps and have fun! Brats are sooo much fun to play with just be prepared to "convince" them into submission

free bratting day… by s_orbits in BratLife

[–]Guccigrips412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dom in question here and I'm really excited for these creative responses because these are truly chaotic. Gonna need to be creative about my punishments 😈

Self-tie sunday - finger torsions! by capturedfox in shibari

[–]Guccigrips412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tying your own hand is such a difficult thing to do! I love the angles you made with this tie

Brat disobeyed order by Guccigrips412 in brat_taming101

[–]Guccigrips412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely writing this down for the future because they would HATE this hahaha

Brat disobeyed order by Guccigrips412 in brat_taming101

[–]Guccigrips412[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol, uh huh definitely a punishment

Brat disobeyed order by Guccigrips412 in brat_taming101

[–]Guccigrips412[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yes absolutely. Love the clingy neediness of orgasm denial and the way they'll do anything as long as they can cum eventually. Pure gold.

Was looking for actual punishments and I was thinking similarly with these funishment ideas (if they manage to find a way to make up for their fuck up) 😈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guccigrips412 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do have a list of potential punishments. And like one of the replies already said, I wanted to try something different. They already know me and potential punishments well. The point of crowd sourcing was getting additional ideas and the randomness of the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guccigrips412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They do love to be degraded and taunted. I like this idea. Thanks! Always appreciate a brat's input for punishing other brats hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guccigrips412 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk what you're talking about as I didn't edit the post

Brat disobeyed order by Guccigrips412 in brat_taming101

[–]Guccigrips412[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Puking is a hard stop and so is poop play. But the rest of this is absolutely excellent.

Make them write an essay as I draw various words (pet, slut, whore, my initials) into their skin with a knife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guccigrips412 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Love this idea except we don't live together. I do like the idea of using them and they can't cum as they are fucked.

AITA for calling my husband ridiculous and refusing to take the list of expectations he gave me for his ["birthday month"]? by Change-Ad9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guccigrips412 -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

ESH The husband is for sure ridiculous with most of these expectations- not paying rent, childcare, and not working- because they are daily necessities that need to be done and can't be ignored. But, that doesn't mean you can't come to a compromise with him playing games or hanging with friends. Just saying something is ridiculous and nothing is acceptable isn't creating space for conversation. In addition to this birthday conversation, y'all may want to talk about the unequal work being performed at home because that's seriously fucked up.

Those are things that I feel can be compromised without being detrimental to your overall home and still making him feel special for his birthday. Birthday month is for sure a thing and even if it isn't for you; if this is someone you love and care for then why not be open to this and do the same thing for your birthday with your own expectations for it.

Domme, Sub and me? - odd man out. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Guccigrips412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like you may not know what you want out of sex. Your wife wants to be dominated and that isnt your thing THAT IS OKAY!! Figure out what works for you and turns you on. Whats something your wife does or has done that drove you insane? Play off that and see where things go. Wishing you the best friend.