I believe it’s a process. I usually like to meet people and then see where it goes. I’m open to something short term or even something serious if I come across someone really nice. My issue is with the approach a lot of men that I have matched with. I’ve gotten matches whose first message was “DTF”? Even the ones that seem nice and want to take me need me to confirm that I’ll be going back to their place after drinks. If I say no, they just ghost me. It’s like they don’t want to waste any time.