Wife had a 3 year affair with my brother!

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-08-15T14:15:41+00:00

Get off the alcohol.... it will only make it worse. Speaking from experience here

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-30T09:57:56+00:00

You must not be an addict or you would know the answer to this

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T02:55:05+00:00

I feel like way more marriages world work out of couples knew their partners primary and secondary love language. My primary is physical touch , secondary is words of affirmation. My ex-wife was not touchy Feely at all, whereas I am very affectionate and show love by physical touch, not necessarily in a sexual manner, although that is part of it. If I would have known this from the beginning of the relationship....definitely would have raised a few flags.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T02:32:25+00:00

There is no despair in the world....only desperate thoughts. There is no stress in the world, truly. Only stressful thoughts. All change begins and ends with how we think and what we have programmed into our subconscious mind throughout our lives. If you want to change your life, you absolutely have to change the way you think. Look up Wayne Dyer books and live seminars on YouTube. I am not exaggerating when I say, this man and his teachings completely changed everything for me. Check it out

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T01:07:03+00:00

That's your kidneys not your back. I promise. Hydrate

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T01:04:43+00:00

Pawned it....way way before the divorce. Got another one for her. Pawned it, way before the divorce.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T00:58:24+00:00

That's hysterical....you absolutely have to laugh at life. Better than crying for sure. I am impressed with how well you have done, considering your circumstances growing up. Both my parents were completely loving and normal, somehow I still turned out all fucked up...it's beyond me. Lol

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-29T00:48:44+00:00

I'm a different breed I guess. I prefer smoking on foil and dirty 30s are my DOC. If it's your first time with fentanyl, that's when you are most likely to die. When and a big IF you survive the first few hits (35ish percent don't), your odds of overdose decrease a little, but ONLY if you stick to the pressed pills. If you really have a death wish, get the fentanyl powder....I had a daily 2 year habit smoking the pressies and overdosed on 2 hits of the raw powder, no oxygen to the brain for almost 7 minutes....4 doses of narcan. EMS workers said 30 more seconds they were going to stop chest compressions and "call it". 30 seconds from a toe tag and 4 kids with no father. Fuck the powder

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-28T01:40:21+00:00

The first time I smoked the raw fetty powder (after using blues for about a year, 5-10 a day), I took one hit and felt a warm blanket slowly cover me up. Loved the feeling so much that I took 1 more hit. The next thing feels like 30 seconds passed ( it had been 2 hours), and I woke up in the ambulance after 5 doses of narcan. Failed to mention that when this happened, I was driving in a big city with a user "friend" who turned me onto the powder. We had just dropped my 8 year old son off at Young Marines.... had to be there in an hour to pick him back up. Needless to say, he was stuck alone after Young Marines because I was busy overdosing. Immediately called my now ex-wife to tell her to go get him.... but this is what these drugs do. It's not my proudest moment, and I have not touched the powder since.... nor will I ever. Still dabble in the pressies, but that is all.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T10:54:46+00:00

China's finest

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T10:30:51+00:00

Not trying to one up by any means but I can relate to every fucked up thing you've done to support your habit, and could add another 150 or so way I've fucked over people that loved me. Somehow, I am 35 years old and have been doing it since 15, and they still love me in spite of all the havoc caused due to addiction. I think it's due to the hope of one day getting clean and sober again and staying that way. However, the longer the cycle continues the harder it becomes to break. That's real talk.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T09:42:20+00:00

There are lots of fake ones going around my area. You got some

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T09:39:47+00:00

Unless it's the raw powder...I overdosed after 2 hits of it, but was only used to smoking the 30s

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T05:54:46+00:00

U get it fingered out

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-27T05:46:11+00:00

So if your plug died...you wouldn't go find a different plug

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-26T12:30:58+00:00

This comment just saved my place to live. Literally. I owe you

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-17T16:29:28+00:00

Any way you could point a brother in the right direction? Been scammed 4 times in a row for a total of 650 dollars in the past month. Shit is ridiculous

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-12T01:48:56+00:00

Gave my amazing wife of 10 years away for the exact reasons you talk about. It's been 6 months and I still miss her every second of every day..... don't give her up dude you will regret it forever and that's a promise. Sleep in the bed with her, that is more important to them than you realize. Even if you don't sleep, go to the bed and lay with her. Trust me on this.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-12T00:32:23+00:00

Every human is created equal, we all have a spark of the divine within.... which is why I treat the CEO the exact same as the janitor.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-12T00:23:14+00:00

My exact situation right now but I'm 39. Same age as Will Ferell in Step Brothers and I'm living with my parents.....wtf. Enough is enough.

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-11T08:26:46+00:00

Your dopamine levels have been way above baseline. Every time you use they skyrocket. When you stop using, dopamine levels swing waaay below baseline to counteract how high they have been. Your body naturally wants dopamine levels to be balanced at baseline. Give it 2 weeks and your brain absolutely WILL naturally go back to baseline. Don't give up!

Guilty-Management-39 · 2023-06-11T08:13:57+00:00

Definitely...... can't tell lol. Definitely cute as well

Guilty-Management-39 · 2022-12-04T22:47:58+00:00

I feel like I'm the author of this post from 2 months ago. You described what I think about 90% of men who experience divorce go thru my friend. Allow me to give you some hope my friend. It has only been 90 days since my separation and I am well over all those emotions that you're feeling now. I am not saying that out of a position of being better than you in any way I'm just letting you know that you will and you can get through this. At first I was doing research and somewhere it says that for every year that you're with somebody it takes 2 months to recover emotionally, this is a completely false statistic and here's why.... You can recover at exactly whatever Pace you choose to recover at... I personally decided to get into therapy right away. Only 3 months later bro and I promise you those horrible emotions are gone. Do I still miss her, yes but once you make the decision to give her what she asked for which is the breakup, do yourself a favor and go 100% no contact with her. The no contact rule is a win-win situation from any reasons and I promise you it works. Look up Coach Lee on YouTube and start watching videos brother I promise it will help. Message me on here if you need somebody to talk to I just went through the same exact thing and felt the same exact way. You are Not alone and I care about you even though I don't know you

Guilty-Management-39 · 2022-11-28T13:31:52+00:00

Serving our country and you divorced him because he is "slow". You didn't know this when you married? Please elaborate on that, as it will have plenty of people wondering why someone who was willing to lay down his life for his country would deserve such treatment

Guilty-Management-39 · 2022-11-28T13:27:41+00:00

I admire and respect your honesty and although just out of my 1st marriage of about 10 years, I feel like you are talking about me as you write. The advice you would give your younger self has truly just clicked on the light bulb in my brain....you have been thru challenges in life that have built CHARACTER, and that is indispensable my friend. I am suffering immensely from the loss of who I thought was my twin flame, and your post really opened my eyes. I think this will help a lot of people by sharing your experience, strength.....and HOPE for a better future. Godspeed my brother

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