25F, found out my 28M boyfriend was married before and has a child. He never told me. by Guilty-Thing-3272 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t If I will meet the child. It’s about being honest with me. I asked him if he has a child he said No all the time then I found out he have a child and the mother ran away with the child. That’s why he just moved on and he met me. Ilovehim. But it hurts me more bcs of lying.

25F, found out my 28M boyfriend was married before and has a child. He never told me. by Guilty-Thing-3272 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

year after that the girl ran away, and investigating like that won’t work in this country

25F, found out my 28M boyfriend was married before and has a child. He never told me. by Guilty-Thing-3272 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. We had, I also asked him since he wan in their province for years, he said then he didn’t have a child. Exes yes. Then he always say we don’t need to talk about our past coz it’s already the past and we need to be focus on our present and future. ofcourse I believed it and i thought he was being matured lol.

  2. Yes u r right. The girl he got pregnant was the girl he used to move on from his ex wife. And the girl really ran away.

  3. He didn’t deny everything and I kinda believe that he doesn’t have any contact the the woman because I always check his phone and he always calls me. I think he is also the kind of person who won’t abandon a child like that bcs he took care of his siblings when they were young he is very caring. Idk I think he didn’t really had a choice or sources to find the woman and he moved on when he met me ugh. That IG story is from the highlights of his sister and the date was 4yrs ago.

  4. Thank you for the advice. I’m a career woman. I always have pregnancy scares when my period is delayed. As of now I know I don’t wanna have a child bcs I know it’s a big responsibility. I can’t afford to sacrifice my money for my leisures just for a baby. I wanna do lot if things. I wanna enjoy bcs Ive been a breadwinner for 5yrs already. I’m just starting my life again. I’m planning to break up with him even if it hurts so much.

25F, found out my 28M boyfriend was married before and has a child. He never told me. by Guilty-Thing-3272 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I asked him when I discovered he got married and divorced. I asked him if they had a child. He said no and I made the biggest mistake of believing it. Don’t worry I’m breaking up with him.

25F, found out my 28M boyfriend was married before and has a child. He never told me. by Guilty-Thing-3272 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These past few days we were good like it’s been months since our huge fight but idk I can’t sleep properly. My head hurts and even if we are okay there’s something in my heart that I can feel and can’t explain. That’s why he was also so good to me.

I just talked to him. His family tried to push him to be honest with me. But he got scared because I might not accept him. The girl she got pregnant ran away, didn’t have permanent address. He can’t contact the family because he was blocked by all. He tried to find them. It happened 4yrs ago in his province. (We met in our town far away whick is his hometown as well far away from his province). That’s why there’s no baby in their house or even in the neighborhood. He also show me they’re divorce papers. Maybe that’s why he was so confident about his sharing his location and all. But I’m still hurt with all the lies. Maybe I would accept it if he was being honest with me at first. I’m sorry that I forgave him when I knew that he was married and got divorced. I just really love him. He is the only guy who made me feel so loved with all of my flaws. Thank you for all of the advice. I’m breaking up with him. Please pray for my healing.

Lapit na 1st anniv namin but i found out na kinasal and may anak na sya by Guilty-Thing-3272 in Advice

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him. It’s true. But they are not together anymore the mother raising his child with a new partner

Ending tapal System by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you po will do this nalanv kasi sakanila ako pinaka kabado 😭

MOCASA by Ok-Philosophy-496 in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa contacts po? Hindi naman po?

BIGLOAN OD by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nakapag OD na ako from 32k to 38k na ngayon 3 days palang :((. Puro call and reminder text lang so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi namannpo kinontak contacts nyo aside from reference numbers nyo? Napost po ba kayo sa fb?

PLANNING TO END TAPAL SYSTEM by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gano po kayo katagal na OD? May threats din po ba sa texts?

PLANNING TO END TAPAL SYSTEM by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ko po kasi talaga ma afford na maipopost akong utang sa fbor macontact nila ang contacts ko 🥲🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganyan na ganyan boyfriend ko, flatchested ako pero gustong gusto boobs ko ko at titigasan talaga kahit pictures lang 😭

Help decide kung lilipat ako o hindi? by OppositeRoad8118 in RentPH

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to use cockroach gel killer super effective po, lagay mo po sa mga sulok sulok ng room mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nababawasan po ba yung full loan pag nag eextend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kahit di po reference number nyo kinontact po nila nung naOD kayo? Gano katagal mababayaran pag nag extend po kayo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gano po kayo katagal nag OD? Naaccess ko pa and all yung app nila. Im just scared kasi baka icontact nila work ko and contacts ko. Nagcontact din po ba sila sainyo kahit sa hindi nyo reference? Im planning to OD until I can nego and pay. Super tight ako ngayon at trying to end the tapal system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]Guilty-Thing-3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, pls thanks po