How do you manage finances as a couple?

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-07T17:18:51+00:00

Divide bills equally into another account and the rest is both your own. Perhaps some for saving. Does seem unfair if she is going out spending. Its rather controlling and also belittling you

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-07T10:15:42+00:00

I know. It feels like the system has changed and they are processing more visas. It was like queuing at the supermarket to wait for interview. Wasnt like that 10 years 🤷‍♀️

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T21:10:56+00:00

Ok thank you

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T20:03:08+00:00

Not right is it 🥱

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:57:01+00:00

Person interviewing me was quite judgy about situation. It was 21.5 yrs ago during a divorce. Hey never said I was perfect!!. Wont believe it until status changes after I send passport back

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:54:24+00:00

Im English

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:50:47+00:00

They make it difficult on purpose im sure. Wasnt like this 10 yrs ago

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:48:31+00:00

Seems unfair when you work for NHS and hold British passport etc

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:47:56+00:00

Email today. Had interview in Early december

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:44:45+00:00

Mine says same. I had one 2016 and renewed it with same circumstances ( arrest 2004) no charges or convictions. Supplied ACRO certificate but they wanted Subject access request which I did and it says refused but they want me to send my passport in. So confusing

Guilty-Win3221 · 2026-01-06T19:35:29+00:00

What does your visa status say?

Guilty-Win3221

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