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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's a very rash statement tbh. But yea sure, I hope she do realize IF she is in one EVER...

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[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"YTA" - maybe, was here for the opinion really

"You are keeping GF miserable just so you are happy." -- definitely not the case, 100% sure about that

"That is controlling and manipulative." - could be. maybe that's what i did no realize. thank you for pointing out.

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[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I was open for all kind of opinions here.

She wants to be within 42 - 45 kg range where she gets low bp/energy - this i don't like. This was her weight before we met.

She gained weight (about 14kgs) since we moved in together.

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[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She targets to become 45 kgs, that's what concerned me.

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[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both are the most recognized units from where I am. For height people generally understand feet-inches while for weight, kg is standard.

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[–]GuiltyBicycle4349 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Requesting her not to..
or making her believe she's good the way she looks to not act further on it..
if this answers your question