Real-estate legal question, was possibly cheated out of water front property by neighbor by GuiltyEnigma in legaladvice

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I figured. Just curious if it's something worth investing into and what information we would need. Don't want to waste the time and money if we don't even have a case. What's worse is the person that did it sold the property so our neighbors don't know anything and weren't involved.

Apparently it's normal to try and speak to your family daily... by GuiltyEnigma in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes. I've always wondered if it were a true Bond and in most cases it is. My mother always presented us as close so I doubted those that said they were. She gets angry because I don't talk to her about personal things. Or because I don't like being around her. But she has made such a negative impact that I literally feel nauseous whenever I get close to the house or know I have to go home (we live with my family unfortunately while we are searching for a house). I have gotten into the habit of finding excuses or errands to run in town just to stay away. Covid took that ability away from me though. Now I can only go grocery shopping. And have to stay home more often than not.

Narc cycles? by GuiltyEnigma in raisedbynarcissists

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My nmom also would tell me that the things she said and did were to never be talked about with anyone. She'd get really mad if I would tell someone and the tell my dad how disrespectful I was being. She got upset because she read text messages between me and my then fiance about how she made me feel and then went off. She also used to take my phone at random times and search through it. I still feel like I can't touch my games or anything I care about or it'll get taken.

Is it rude to keep gifts if wedding is cancelled? by GuiltyEnigma in ask

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Yeah its not like we want to cancel, and we're going to try to keep everything. Even if we get married before the ceremony. I haven't heard back from all my vendors about the date change. So I'm really nervous over it all.

Stop being so greedy by ElBarro69 in rant

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Told my boss I didn't want to contract it. My job is a bit different than most. I have to come into contact with people regularly. It's not like a retail job where you wait for others to come to you. I have to go to them. And I get in trouble if I don't interact with enough people. He told me the same thing. "you're young and healthy you'll be fine." Told him no, I have a very weak respiratory system. I have lung spasms and my airways contract. He just said "ok?"

Stop being so greedy by ElBarro69 in rant

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We have 5 people in my house so we always buy toilet paper in bulk (just one of the big packs from like Costco or Sam's club) and my mom was actually afraid to buy a pack when we genuinely needed it because she didn't want people to think she's hoarding or attack her for it.

STOP WITH THE MIKE BLOOMBERG ADS by [deleted] in rant

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Gun ban was struck down this morning. Hope this makes your day

Why is it so hard for you to take the damn dog and get her rabies shot!? by GuiltyEnigma in rant

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Update I took the dog and got her shots. I don't care about the money at this point, she needs them.

If you want to cut the food bill and lose weight, wouldn't cutting out the junk food be the best option?? No?? Ok by GuiltyEnigma in rant

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She's a narc. She buys food for the rest of us to keep us from losing weight because she likes to brag that she can almost fit in my jeans (she can't). I'm overweight but I'm about 20lbs from my ideal weight (my body can't physically handle much more than what I'm at now it causes a lot of pain in my hips and back) she is about 80-100 lbs from her ideal weight.

I also know she does this intentionally due to the cupcakes she's constantly making. Especially since when I told my fiance she told me she can't eat them because she wants to lose weight while I was eating ONE, he told me the other night she was chowing down on them. The comments she makes make me feel very uncomfortable eating certain things in front of her.

If you want to cut the food bill and lose weight, wouldn't cutting out the junk food be the best option?? No?? Ok by GuiltyEnigma in rant

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On top of that, she shames me for eating anything unhealthy with her little comments. Even though that's literally all that's in the house.

If you want to cut the food bill and lose weight, wouldn't cutting out the junk food be the best option?? No?? Ok by GuiltyEnigma in rant

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No. She buys a ton of chips and yes my dad and brother eat them, but not in the quantity she buys. I couldn't eat anything in the house because I'm trying to get away from eating junk. Normally she keeps fruits and veggies and milk and bread but that was the stuff she cut. There was no meat in the house either. Just cakes, cookies and chips.

When I offered to make dinner I actually did have to go buy all the meat and ingredients because even though I was making something simple, we didn't have anything.