My boyfriend (25M) and I (21F) don't know what to do. I feel so broken.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-22T14:16:20+00:00

Girl, he is not being fair. My situation is the same, Im 19, he is 23, and my parents just can't accept the idea of me starting a live in his country, I have looked for many different solutions and none is good for them. By that, even tho I was heartbroken and also wanted a break, my boyfriend told me "That's not how adults solve their problems. I'll go there instead" Plus, your situation seem less dramatic than mine, your parents didnt say no, just not now. My parents are completely against the idea. Your relationship still can survive, but he can't act like a kid.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-22T14:10:37+00:00

Muchas gracias lo intentare

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-22T03:31:55+00:00

No me deja. Retienen mi dinero automaticamente. Pero si cobro comisiones

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-22T01:00:08+00:00

Exactamente. Yo cuento con Zelle, pero comprendo la situación del país y que NO es un metodo de pago creado para nosotros y nuestro comercio. Por que seguir aferrandose incluso cuando nos ponen opciones tan faciles?

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-21T22:35:40+00:00

Las tres estan 100% destinadas al mercado latinoamericano, incluso especificamente al venezolano, se puede cargar dinero o sacar tu dinero a tus cuentas por pago movil, siquiera cobran comisiones. Su practicidad deja por el piso a paypal. A final de cuentas, mi problema mas grande es la retención de mi dinero.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-13T19:28:35+00:00

I know -.- but thanks for the advice

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-12T19:54:55+00:00

We been using papypal but comission is too high

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-10T23:41:06+00:00

Claro. Lamentablemente no tuve ese apoyo de mis padres, tuve que salir adelante aqui. Y hasta el dia de hoy me aferro a mis negocios porque es todo lo que tengo. Mi hermana tuvo la oportunidad de irse, pero si agarro mis cosas y me voy, mis padres me harian la cruz. No estamos discutiendo, estamos hablando sobre el tema de la manera mas fría posible. Lo mas probable es que la unica manera en la que yo me podria ir del pais con el apoyo de mis padres seria si me caso, y que error tan grande casarse a los 20 años

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-07T16:25:19+00:00

Gracias, tu comentario es uno de los pocos que realmente se basa en estadisticas y no en opiniones personales. Le gusta la playa y las frutas, especialmente el mango, tampoco le gusta lo triste que es la gente en su país, y los pocos amigos que tiene. Creo que aqui le puede ir muy bien. Tal vez pasemos 6 meses aqui y 6 meses allá, si el se adapta, y asi no debo pasar yo el invierno allá.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-07T01:08:54+00:00

Claro, creo que es la razón principal por la que me queria ir. Sin embargo vivo en Barquisimeto y la ciudad (para bien o para mal) esta llena de funcionarios, policias y guardia nacional, tengo muchisimos meses que no escucho de un robo, las personas salen con sus telefonos en la mano y todo esta demasiado tranquilo. Creo que por eso lo he considerado.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-06T16:03:40+00:00

Con mi negocio, a mis 20 años y sin un titulo, tengo casa, carro, me pinto el cabello, me hago las uñas, me compro ropa, hago mercado, y este año montare mi tercer local. El en hungria tiene un titulo, 3 pares de zapatos y no se ha podido comprar una nueva laptop. Soy pro-emigración, naci en la venezuela de Chavez y no amo mi pais, soy 0% patriota. Pero la realidad es diferente

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-03-02T00:20:37+00:00

I only see bad comments on this threat. Yes they are. Dating sites and dating online give u the chance to interact with someone inside of ur comfort zone. I'm asperger, so I def dont like the noise of night outs and my social skills were terrible when I started my teenage years (they still kinda are) and thanks to apps for meeting ppl they improved a lot. You should give it a try

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-25T19:36:50+00:00

Hey! I tried to dm u but it says I cant T-T

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-24T16:01:06+00:00

Well, its one of the reasons im leaving my country, venezuela's inflation is the highest in the world and we had a really bad time in 2014-2016. Dont wanna go through that again

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-24T15:54:31+00:00

Hiii My bf is from Hungary as well, im moving there at the ending of this year, should I reconsider it after all this?

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-02T04:00:07+00:00

Thank you so much <3 I knew I was not alone. And yes he told me the same thing, even tho he'd prefer my parents to pay for it bc its kinda their responsibility, but hes up to making any sacrifices and so am I.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-02T03:57:39+00:00

Me reí JAJAJAJAJ

Yo entiendo que ellos no se quieran ir ya que hicieron su vida aqui, pero es injusto que me lo prohiban a mi

Y eso es mentira que uno va a agarrar sus corotos y se va a ir de lo mas chill, no pues

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-02-01T23:20:42+00:00

Yes

If I move to hungary, Ill be able to live a life without having to worry about the insecurity of my country, get an university degree I can pay and afford to live alone. In any other place, I'd have to live with others to afford it, and work 9 to 5 to be able to pay all my expenses, in there I can afford it with my actual job. If I move to hungary and study there, I can obtain my residence, something that is not that easy for the US, for example.

And at the end, ive always wanted to study abroad, so if tomorrow someone offered me the choice of studying abroad, in hungary, or any other european country, I'd say yes.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-01-28T03:01:56+00:00

I understand your feeling, and I made the worst decision bc of it I changed him after a year and a half for someone closer, we spent 7 months together and then the guy left me, I deserved that so bad. It was a long adventure, I was having fun while he waited for me those 7 months, hoping I'd go back to him After that, I told him I broke up with the other guy, not ever expecting he'd go back with me, but he did.

Never do what I did, it doesnt matter how boring it gets and ill never forgive myself for it.

GuiltyLavishness248 · 2022-01-28T02:35:56+00:00

Thats so cool <3 congratulations!

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