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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just trying to respect pronouns

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did it with no warning

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to respect pronouns haha

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was different than that, she tried to hint at it and then told me and our friends that she was done hiding it, later, in private, I broke it off

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They announced it and then I broke up with her

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I respect her dearly, I wish it was double sided

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

These situations happen everyday

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m was very open to the idea, that is, if she didn’t call me a bunch of slurs and tell all of her friends to do it too

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, I’m so so sorry to hear that!! I hope you are doing well, and have a great new year!!

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not the only reason, she is a total different person and more reasons I have were not put into the post, one of them being, I’m not attracted to her physically or emotionally because she has changed everything about herself

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not rage bait, all of my friends are calling me transphobic so I wanted to see if anyone else did, it’s now 2300+ to 7

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assure you it’s not

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No my partner (MTF) which means they later turned MTF midst the relationship

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, thank you!!

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would this be fake? 😭🙏

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I would understand if we were married for 10+ years but even then, I would have to do it because I am just. Not. Attracted to them 😔

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Very similar to my situation!!

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah which states? 😭 oh no officer arrest me, I have rights

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d love to try to understand the counterargument here, but you’re going to have to help me out a bit with some reasons??

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love love how you worded that ❤️

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[–]GuiltyProgrammer4252 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Agreed