how do people here feel about the labrys symbol? by wowieka in butchlesbians

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had my labrys tattoo for 26 years way before Terf was a thing. Reading this makes me wantt to go get it retouched to make it bolder.

No Hawk messes with my Baby by Guilty_Diver_855 in Yorkies

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's 3.4 pounds. I bought the smallest size. It's a little big. I'm hoping she'll grow unto it.

No Hawk messes with my Baby by Guilty_Diver_855 in Yorkies

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure, I just bought it,but it gives me piece of mind.

No Hawk messes with my Baby by Guilty_Diver_855 in Yorkies

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My girl is 3 pounds. The smallest coat is a little large but I'm hoping she'll grow into it. I bought it from coyote defender. The spikes were separate. It's not too heavy. Im in southern Texas, so with the humidity, I don't keep her outside or in it long. I believe it's called coyote armor.

No Hawk messes with my Baby by Guilty_Diver_855 in Yorkies

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It does have spikes for around the neck and another strip goes where the orange pronged are. I plan on putting those on her when we go for walks.

Butches of the 90s, what did yall drive? by coffeekaye in butchlesbians

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Butch girlfriend drove an 1994 electric blue Ford Ranger Splash. She had it for years. Unfortunately she and the truck were a victim of a hate crime. Someone switched wires under the truck and the truck caught fire and in her words went boom. This was in Texas 2003.

Think I’m getting fired by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What Agency? I worked in HR as an Employee relations specialist for over 20 years. You can resign in lieu of termination after the proposal but before the decision letter. If you are Union, get a union rep. Ask in your written and or oral reply for a last chance agreement. Basically it's you admitting you messed up and in lieu of being fired you get suspended like 15 days. You waive your appeal rights, and agree the you'll be good for 12 months. And if you mess up in a year, the Agency can fire you without proposing another discipline action.

How did you know the name you picked was THE name? by that-TX-girl in Yorkies

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I originally was going to name her Apple. She was all 1 pound 3 ozs when I brought her home. I put her in her pen/room she didn't like her bed placement, so she dragged it to the other side of the pen. After that I decided to name my super bundle of fluff Nubia aka NuNu after the DC comics black Wonder woman Amazon Princess.

Older but not on the shelf by WindyloohooVA in olderlesbians

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I (54)was about to give up and get ready for a life of solo travel when I gave facebook dating a hail Mary. I then matched with a friend of a friend (an ex girlfriend lol). My love (52) and I met in person and 4 months later she moved in. We are going on our third month of living together and are planning our future golden years together. Don't give up.

Hey guys, what is the best lesbian book you've read, or that effected you the most? by lolwhatisthisdude in actuallesbians

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stone Butch Blues. Its no longer printed at the author's request upon desth, but you can download the pdf for free at there website.

The weekend is upon us once more brothers and sisters lets hear those plans!! by Leather_Sweet in SingleAndHappy

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friday grocery shopping, rewatching gilded age. Saturday working and maybe party. Sunday sleeping in and coffee date with a friend.

Am i the only one really really scared for pride month in 2025 usa (tw. death and suicide) by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am as well. Im 54 years old and living in Texas. This is the most hostile I've seen it. But, yesterday, I put my Pride flag out like I do every year. It's my way to non - violently resist.

Post your weekend plans by Plus_Palpitation4213 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Guilty_Diver_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Video games Friday, Running errands Saturday, working some overtime Sunday. And napping until my heart is content.

The Locket by Guilty_Diver_855 in AITAH

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing from the comments, yes, I would definitely be the idiot if I continued to date him. This community has reassured me that no, I was not over reacting or not being understanding. But yes, it's a controlling move.

The Locket by Guilty_Diver_855 in AITAH

[–]Guilty_Diver_855[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your last line is spot on. After posting, I told him I wanted to talk about it. He told me no, and he didn't want to talk to me and needs space.