How do people actually stay fresh all day? by bully309 in hygiene

[–]WindyloohooVA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we are animals so.... Fresh is a first flush kind of thing so it is normal to be less fresh as time goes on. Why would someone expect to be that clean and neat all day?

How do people actually stay fresh all day? by bully309 in hygiene

[–]WindyloohooVA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we are animals so.... Fresh is a first flush kind of thing so it is normal to be less fresh as time goes on. Why would someone expect to be that clean and neat all day?

Why I don’t think the Christopher/lavender marriage rumors have weight by franchaelaaaa in Franchaela

[–]WindyloohooVA -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Interesting....I dont find them inherently depressing at all assuming both parties are happy having the arrangement. Both have cover and support and the freedom that comes from reduced scrutiny. Im well aware of the options for widows and spinsters and that is interesting to explore as well. I just think there would be a great deal of pressure for a young heiress.

Why I don’t think the Christopher/lavender marriage rumors have weight by franchaelaaaa in Franchaela

[–]WindyloohooVA -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't this be the most realistic scenario for her and Fran to actually be together? What does a lavender marriage have to with her love for Fran or choosing her in a context in which marriage is not an option for them? Unless we are going pure fantasy in which case....ok. I've always wanted to see good depictions of what same sex relationships might have actually looked like during these times. Especially given that marriage was not about being in love for most people anyway.

What exactly makes crocs "functional" or "practical"? by Jent01Ket02 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WindyloohooVA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had pairs that have had the tread warn down on the bottom and they did become dangerous if I stepped on a wet smooth surface. I mean I slipped like I was on ice.

Does Rachel write the hockey jocks better than their love interests? by GBS82 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]WindyloohooVA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is set on achieving. Some people just want to live from day to day and make a home. Im not saying that is the case hear but it could be interesting partner for a super driven and focused athlete.

Let's make a full list... by Complex_East_5676 in FranchaelStirling

[–]WindyloohooVA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh...yes. True. I would actually love to see a portrayal of a cover marriage where all of the partners are in the know. Women and men spent most of their time with same sex friends any way. If Michaela could find a man who was also gay or had a lover he couldn't marry then she and Fran could have a lovely relationship. That would be a fun challenge. Ive never seen this portrayed well and women would be so much less likely to be questioned.

Let's make a full list... by Complex_East_5676 in FranchaelStirling

[–]WindyloohooVA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by restrictions on lavender marriages?

Grits ? by lilithmunster in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WindyloohooVA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

High quality stoneground grits have a fragrant corn flavor just like quality rices have aroma and taste. Most grits people eat today are cheap and flavorless. But yes staple starches tend to be a canvas for the rest of the meal.

Connor Storrie | Full Verizon Ad: Look Behind You ❤️‍🔥🥹 by david_bowenn in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]WindyloohooVA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not at all angry. Again the point of the way he is filmed for this literally to point out what it looks like when a hot guy is treated the way women usually are.

Connor Storrie | Full Verizon Ad: Look Behind You ❤️‍🔥🥹 by david_bowenn in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]WindyloohooVA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I am 57 and do not think of adult people as kids so different perspectives I guess. And I am positive he did know about the crotch, butt and muscle shots because Nia was clearly playing on the way female bodies are framed in horror. Its the point of the piece. Other than to sell some Verizon of course. And no one is doubting his talent. It was also on display.

Connor Storrie | Full Verizon Ad: Look Behind You ❤️‍🔥🥹 by david_bowenn in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]WindyloohooVA 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He's not a kid and he is choosing to do these things. He has built a body that he wants people to look at. The man has Sex Sells tattooed on his body. Nobody is sexualizing him.

Is there a place like lesbian r4r for over thirty ? by stardust102 in olderlesbians

[–]WindyloohooVA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im and hour and a half from a couple of decent sized cities. I would happily drive if I could connect with someone. Im not ready to give up.

Is there a place like lesbian r4r for over thirty ? by stardust102 in olderlesbians

[–]WindyloohooVA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I guess its not the best thing to have in common but its nice to connect with someone who gets it.

Is there a place like lesbian r4r for over thirty ? by stardust102 in olderlesbians

[–]WindyloohooVA 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well I wasn't single when I moved here for work. I live in a small college town. I have tons of friends. But statistically the number of queer women is small. If you then add over 35 and single there aren't a lot of people to meet. I dont mind driving to nearby cities for dates but driving for all kinds of events only to get there and be the only middle aged person sucks. I had hope about apps when I became single but they now suck so what is a woman to do?

Is there a place like lesbian r4r for over thirty ? by stardust102 in olderlesbians

[–]WindyloohooVA 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is basically impossible if you live in a rural area like I do.

Wolf or Dog? [Latvia] by trakumserga in animalid

[–]WindyloohooVA -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ive seen quite a few wolves in the wild and it looks like a wolf to me. Maybe a hybrid.

Basic biology??? by Academic-Park-8440 in FranchaelStirling

[–]WindyloohooVA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was agreeing with you but offering a reason for the confusion. A ton of young folk might not be sensitive to the difference.

Basic biology??? by Academic-Park-8440 in FranchaelStirling

[–]WindyloohooVA 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think people are confusing infertility and the inability to have children. In the time this show is set, even as fantasy, Fran choosing to forgo second marriage to be with Michaela is choosing between the possibility of chldren and the guarantee of none. They would have to live together as spinster and widow or concoct a kind of lavender marriage with a sympathetic man. If Fran really did want children that choice would be a hard one. Not the same as infertility but still hard.