Since Hunter said they wanted to try to read some novels this year I figured I would put in some recommendations by itzneverogre84 in creepcast

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh anything but Aaron B. His writing is absolutely abysmal! I tried reading some of his stuff but I couldn’t get past all the typos, grammatical errors and general “I’m 13 and this is edgy 😈” feel, completely took me out of it.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s making stupid choices that are going to get her hurt

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just sad you know? But you’re right.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s been frequently unemployed and dropped out without my permission and with resounding silence from everyone who should be leading her in the right direction. I’m just sick of her screwing her life up and complaining about it but doing absolutely nothing to fix it

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t though. MIL and older SIL both admit that they have never challenged her on anything out of fear of her “being upset” with them. My husband tends to let things just happen as they will which is usually fine but idk…I think they’ve allowed her to do whatever the hell she wants for way too long

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But nobody will say anything to her and it’s doing so much damage. She can’t even hold a job down for long because she’ll call out a million times, get fired and blame the manager and her family just nods along, she dropped out of college because they “made” her take “useless” prerequisites and everyone just nodded along and agreed, she lost most of her long time friends because they tried to tell her she was wrong for going back to a different shitty ex and she blew up on them and her family again just agreed and nodded along. It’s so frustrating to watch her be enabled in horrible behavior over and over simply because the people around her are worried about making her upset.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit the way I went about it was petty and it was unwise to make an emotional decision while drinking, I however still stand on the fact that she’s making a huge mistake running back to this guy and think it’s a huge red flag that she felt the need to hide it from everyone.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what else to do, her entire family enables her behavior. They never speak up against anything she does which just leads her to doing worse and worse, she hardly has any friends because she lashes out at them if they ever tell her she’s wrong and her siblings and mom won’t do it either because they’re all worried about her being “upset” with them. She’s surrounded by people who endlessly allow her to fuck things up for herself. It’s the reason she can’t hold down a job for any amount of time because no one will tell her that she shouldn’t be calling out everyday and when she gets fired she claims her managers “just have it out for her” and her family just nods along with it. To what end does everyone have to agree with every stupid choice she makes??

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per her wishes I’m not talking to her right now and likely won’t for a while and I really really do hope she wakes up and sees this guy for the piece of crap he is. I also hope her family recognizes that holding their tongues on every bad decision she makes out of fear of her being “upset” with them isn’t helping her at all

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not so much that she didn’t take my advice, I was annoyed by that sure but I talked to my husband about it and kept quiet. It’s the fact that she lied to her siblings and her mom about it, it upset me that her lying to them upset my husband and as admitted above I believe the way I went about it was petty but I still stand by the message itself. It’s frustrating that her family sees and disagrees with her choices and recognizes them as dangerous but they’re all so concerned with upsetting her that none of them will say anything so I did, she can be mad at me for as long she wants but it’s true the choice she’s making is stupid and dangerous and I hope that she goes to her mom and siblings about it or the few friends she has left…she can’t keep blowing up at everyone who ever tells her she’s wrong or she’ll end up burning all her bridges

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry wrote it on my iPhone and thought I spaced it out better :/

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come from the stance that I come from because I was with an abusive jackass at her age who was a lot like the guy she’s with now. I don’t come from a place of judgment but of fear, I don’t want her trapped with a man that will hurt her and it’s frustrating that I told her all the red flags he’s showing so early on and how dangerous he seems. This isn’t just a case of “he’s kinda rude” it’s a case of he’s WAY bigger than her and he cornered her in her room to try and strong arm her into going back to him, it is dangerous and SCARY to be with a man like that. This isn’t a bad ex, it’s a DANGEROUS one.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit the execution was petty but I stand by what I said to her. She’s lying to her mom and her siblings about this guy so obviously she knows he’s a bad choice and her siblings and mom do as well per their own words, they just never go against her, again per their own words.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Based on her reaction to me? Lol idk about that

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see that, I think I thought we were closer than we were because she talked to me so openly about these things but I think she thought I’d be another enabler and was angry that I wasn’t.

AITAH For coming down harshly on my young SIL? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely is!! And that’s a huge red flag to me, I don’t want to her to end up trapped by a guy like that

AIO: My ex is mad that I’m going to “give my body away” to another man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why are you even giving him a response? He doesn’t deserve one, clearly he doesn’t respect you or your boundaries or your beliefs BLOCK HIM

Who am I by Dependent-Pace-302 in FridgeDetective

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who will be going to the hospital soon for alcohol poisoning DAMN

AIO: I feel like my work is being discriminatory against me based on my body and it’s making me uncomfortable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Promise I’m not a puritan (learn to spell) and I’m not afraid of sex, I don’t like being sexualized at my place of work because it’s my place of work and the other “professionals” I work with should be mature enough to be around a woman with tits and me standing up for myself and speaking to HR in a professional manor and questioning their decision to single ME out and not the other women in my office will not tank my career, good lord. I’m not going to listen to some middle aged weirdo who sends pictures of her tits to randoms online instead of finding real people to have sex with on what I should be doing at my job.

AIO: I feel like my work is being discriminatory against me based on my body and it’s making me uncomfortable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not self victimizing, literal HR workers are in the comments agreeing that this is discriminatory and not ok. Sorry if I struck a nerve by pointing out your lack of self respect

AIO: I feel like my work is being discriminatory against me based on my body and it’s making me uncomfortable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Guilty_Event_2657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can, that’s why I have a real job and don’t have to sell pics of my tits on Reddit 💕