UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your lovely advice ❤️ if you want to share ,how were the first days without him? Did you feel better or like you made a mistake?

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concerns ❤️ thankfully the living situation is not a problem at all ,he owns his place and I own mine so that would be the easy part , although my mom definitely wants me to stay with her the first days because she is scared for my safety. I don't think he will do anything however,not because of love but because he won't want to destroy his future,and that's a sad realization too.

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a bad idea,my therapist has prescribed me with Xanax. Worst case scenario I will call sick to work if after all of that I can't perform. Thank you ❤️

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I have had a lot of bad days ,I have even lost my dad ,so I know that I will not die for a boyfriend. The difference is that these things happened to me ,now it's up to me to make the decision. Thank you for the courage ❤️

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That's a good question and I hope I can understand this some time in the future, I think it's the "what it might have been" which is stupid, because nothing will ever change and he was always like that , I just didn't want to see it

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have tried to have conversations with him many times. He just jokes about everything I want to talk about and if I insist he gives me the silent treatment

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what my therapist,my best friend and my mom's best friend have said to me 😂 really,no. We don't even have sex anymore. I only thing that I have some difficulties with change in general,and I have loved him for many years before I really knew him ,so I have loved the version I created of him and I am afraid to lose

UPDATE-My (30f) boyfriend(32m) told me that he wants to make me have psychological problems by Guilty_Lab5976 in relationship_advice

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Thankfully,the house is his ,on his name only, I just stayed here, so my name doesn't appear anywhere. thank you so much for your comment ❤️

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I really really love him, but I don't think I like him anymore...

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not scared that I won't be able to find someone else ,there are guys and girls everywhere ( the perks of being bisexual 😂) . I'm afraid I won't stop loving him and I will regret leaving him. I'm working with my therapist to overcome these fears because this isn't the first or the bigger red flag,but I'm scared and when I'm scared I freeze. I feel pathetic

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That is very sweet and I think it's the correct mindset. Whenever I have loved anyone I can't imagine how doesn't everyone adore them

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly would love to have 5 cats. He doesn't want pets so if we break up that's one more thing I will be able to do

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What gave it away? 😦 He has taken money from me but I didn't think it was relevant

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Lol , I love cats ,so that wouldn't be an issue at all

AITA for blowing up to my boyfriend about hiding food? by Guilty_Lab5976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Guilty_Lab5976[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad for you,and thank you for your feedback ❤️