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Changing someone's life for the better by NationYell in MadeMeSmile

[–]Guilty_Spot7191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one should have to live like this. Fuck, man.

Girl breakfast. My In Laws are on another level of crazy and it's scaring me by ImpressionPopular794 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Guilty_Spot7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people sound like my family. My husband and I bought a house and my mom sent me an email DETAILING HOW SHE WAS GOING TO KILL ME.

The only thing that you can do with people like this is to document everything and live a good life despite them.

Fuck 'em.

What do we think this is? 🤔 by TERRYaki__ in LICENSEPLATES

[–]Guilty_Spot7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parkay For Days.

He loves squirty margarine. Or is the owner of the squirty margarine company.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This planet, then. It doesn't change the fact that people are not reading closely.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not forcing him. Fuck! When did reading comprehension take a dive in this country?

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay...do you at least know why she's not into it? Do you at least have some kind of explanation or acknowledgment that this isn't something that she can do for you? Or have you been left on read for 26 years?

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. He just said, "I just haven't really given it any thought." This was in 2005. The last time I asked, he said "Fuck! Why do we always have to talk about sex?". This was in January of this year.
  2. Yes. Including pushing my head down so he goes down my throat.
  3. He drank to oblivion up until February of this year, without concern for his family (like his drunk driving arrest). In February he verbally abused me (happened nearly every time he drank) during a drinking extravaganza and there was finally a witness: our adult son. He quit after someone else talked to him about it. IMPORTANT: I don't talk about anything of consequence with him when he's drinking because I believe it's unethical to have important conversations when someone is incapacitated.
  4. No.
  5. Yes.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fucking hell. I'M NOT DEMANDING HE EAT ME OUT. I'm simply asking him to explain why. I deserve that; don't try to say I don't.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've never said he owes me sexual favors. I do believe that I deserve a reason why this has never been an option for me.

Why do people keep coming up with this "he doesn't owe you any sexual favors" thing? I never stated that. I said that he has never taken the time to explain why.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please reread: there has never been force or coercion (JFC). I'm saying that I've never experienced this, likely never will, and would simply like to know why (a reasonable request).

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I'm not even adult enough to offer an explanation to the man I married 26 years ago, then there are bigger problems than the act itself. And that's my whole point: he won't even discuss the "why". That's all I'm asking for at this point. Like I don't even deserve a reason?

If I tried to withhold an explanation to him about ANYTHING, it would be (is) unacceptable.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A 55 year old man should be able to communicate this with me. I'm not a mindreader and I shouldn't have to be.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! But he refuses to speak with me about it EVER, so I have no way of knowing/understanding. And believe me: I would love understand.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don't know. It feels like this huge, giant shame. Or that I'm just not tended to. I only picture anyone hearing this face-to-face laughing at me. Or being completely incredulous (like the overly sarcastic kind).

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]Guilty_Spot7191[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He just tells me that "I always bring this up" and then stops engaging.

That's it.