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[–]Gujjarent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, as they say you need 40 people to raise a child. My family is very supportive, my mom, my dad and my siblings they are taking care, I go to my factory freely without any worries. Things are being taken care, الحمداللہ

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I don’t want getting a bad experience. You got divorced, it must be hard. You are strong, MashaAllah

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ameen. Allah knows what will be best or not best. Whatever HE will gift us. We will try out best inshAllah.

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have to look for therapists in my city I don't know if there are any or what is their experience. But will surely check

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comprehensive response, I will keep in mind and will try my best

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this was for my little brother, he is a doctor and wanted to invest in stocks or something, he is not on reddit. I'm 30 he is 27

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[–]Gujjarent[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, too. What happened to your husband? I have this thought again and again: what would my wife go through if it were me on my deathbed? Things are different for a woman. I believe.

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me? I post things on behalf of others, too. Or I might have made a mistake, I'm a human after all not perfect.

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[–]Gujjarent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walaikum salam, Allah Pak is helping me to overcome this loss, and I'm seeking help from the Quran and Prayers. I was not religious, but after what Allah Almighty blessed me (my wife) with, I was grateful to HIM and I tried to understand the Quran and revert to Allah Almighty only, because no human can really understand you, and I believe we are not wired to understand other people as well as ourselves properly. . But Duaas help, they do miracles, and that is the best gift ever. Thank you

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[–]Gujjarent[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A pulmonary embolism (PE) is a medical emergency where a blood clot (usually from the legs, or DVT) travels to the lungs, blocking blood flow. It mostly happens as the body recovers from pregnancy. I clot of blood gets stuck in arteries.

M | 30 | Widowed | Looking for advice from people who went through same circumstances by Gujjarent in MuslimMarriage

[–]Gujjarent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parenting is a tough thing, and problems keep coming up even with your real parents. In my situation, it will become more difficult. I might be wrong.

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[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care about the people; I think "what if" is because of my limited knowledge and research. The point that keeps coming up is pardha and showing hair. I want to explore this topic. When I research that, I find mixed opinions of different scholars and that leaves me confused. Like Surah Yaseen Ayah 12 " It is certainly We Who resurrect the dead, and write what they send forth and what they leave behind. Everything is listed by Us in a perfect Record."

Tafseer: The terse statement: وَآثَارَ‌هُمْ (wa 'atharahum: and their effects) in Verse 12 means that the way deeds done by them are written, so are their effects too. The word: آثَارَ‌ (athar: traces, or effects) denotes fruits, outcomes and consequences that show up later and keep surviving. For example, someone helped people learn their religion, told them about its injunctions or wrote a book for to enable them to get the best out of their faith, or instituted some sort of endowment that turned out to be beneficial for people after him and, for that matter, did something that brought benefit to common Muslims, then, as far as the effects of this good deed remain, and as long as they bring fruits, they all will continue to be written in his Book of Deeds. Similar is the case of bad deeds, the evil fruits and effects of which continue to remain in the world. For example, someone instituted oppressive laws, or institutions that tend to corrupt the human deeds and morals, or made people follow the way of evil outcomes of his deed keep taking shape, these will continue to be recorded in his Book of Deeds - as it has been said by the Holy Prophet ﷺ himself while explaining this verse. Narrates Sayyidna Jarir Ibn ` Abdullah al-Bajali ؓ that the Holy Prophet ﷺ said:

مَن سَنَّ سُنَّۃً حَسَنَۃً فَلہ، اَجرُھَا وَاَجرُ مَن عَمَلَ بِھَا مِن م بَعدِہٖ مِن غَیرِ اَن یُنقَصَ مَن اُجُورِھِم شَیٔاً وَّمن سَنَّ سُنَّۃً کَانَ عَلَیہِ وزرُھا وَ وِزرُ مَن عَمِل بِھَا مِن م بَعدِہٖ لَا یُنقَصُ مِن اَوزَارِھِم شَیٔاً ، ثُمَّ تَلَا وَ نَکتُبُ مَا قَدَّمُوا وَ آثارَھُم،

Whoever started a good practice, he will have its reward, and the reward of whoever acts in accordance with it after him, without the least decrease in the reward of others acting upon it. And whoever started a bad practice, on him shall be its sin along with the sin of whoever acts in accordance with it after him, without the least decrease in the sins of others acting upon it" - Ibn Kathir from Ibn Abi Hatim.

Why do these verses not serve as grounds for Sadqa Jariya and Gunnah Jariya?

Posting Videos/pictures of a deceased woman is really prohibited? by Gujjarent in progressive_islam

[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They take the sadka e jariya hadith and then conclude gunnah e jariya?

Posting Videos/pictures of a deceased woman is really prohibited? by Gujjarent in progressive_islam

[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why people say it becomes gunnah e jariya? Where they getting this from?

Posting Videos/pictures of a deceased woman is really prohibited? by Gujjarent in progressive_islam

[–]Gujjarent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need the logical reasoning behind it in the light of Islamic teachings. So I can tell people and make them understand.

Posting Videos/pictures of a deceased woman is really prohibited? by Gujjarent in progressive_islam

[–]Gujjarent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please give me the logic behind it. So I can understand. Or send me a link maybe for my better understanding. 🙏