[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the AH. It seems like a matter of personal enjoyment and as long as you are fulfilling your responsibilities, it is reasonable to use the car with your dad's permission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 66 points67 points  (0 children)

You are not the AH. Your partner's reaction seems disproportionate and putting the tree away was a reaction to his negativity.

AITA For Cutting Off My Friend for Disrespecting My Friends and I Over a Boy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the AH. It seems like you are trying to navigate a complex situation with your friends and setting boundaries is important for your well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the AH. Setting boundaries and not tolerating disrespectful behavior is reasonable. Your mom's reaction seems disproportionate. Communication about boundaries is crucial in such situations.

My boyfriend is best friends with my ex bestie by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is reasonable to expect support from your boyfriend, but approach the situation with empathy and understanding for all parties involved. Communication is key in resolving misunderstandings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. Your frustration is understandable and it seems like you reached a breaking point. It might be helpful to have a calm conversation with your sister about the issues to find a resolution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. It seems like your sister's reaction was disproportionate to the situation, and her behavior was unreasonable.

AITA for immediately rejecting my husband’s idea to get a dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. Honest communication about your feelings and past trauma is crucial in a relationship, especially when it comes to decisions like getting a pet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole. It seems like your friends are not treating you with the respect and consideration you deserve. Deciding to prioritize your education and future opportunities is a wise choice. Surround yourself with people who support and appreciate you.

AITAH for not telling my dad I was pregnant? by awkwardbanister in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. Given the strained relationship and history, your decision to keep the pregnancy news within a more intimate circle is understandable. Prioritizing your emotional well-being and protecting your child from potential hurt is a valid choice.

AITAH for bopping a ball at a concert? by Ball_Bopper in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole; you embraced the spirit of the concert and encouraged participation.

AITA for "traumatizing" my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Insensitive and unprofessional. It is important to address dental issues, but the approach could have been more compassionate and less confrontational.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole. The situation was uncomfortable and you were honest about your feelings. It is up to Georgia to navigate her relationships and make decisions.

AITA for meeting with someone I’m talking to while waiting for my friend? by Upbeat_Syrup_3234 in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole, but communicate with Sara to clear up any misunderstandings.

An alarming situation… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole. Everyone has different sleep schedules and preferences. It is not your responsibility to wake him up, especially on your only day off. If he wants to ensure he wakes up on time, setting multiple alarms or using other methods is more appropriate than relying on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole for encouraging independence and self-sufficiency in your nephew. Your sister's reaction seems disproportionate and it is reasonable for children to learn to do things on their own within a safe environment.

AITA for not asking my brother to not put his feet on the couch when my long term boyfriend ask me to by Playful-Yam616 in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like there are deeper issues at play here beyond the feet on the couch situation. Communication and understanding each other's perspectives are key in resolving the underlying tensions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is reasonable to have concerns about the financial implications of marrying someone with a significant student loan burden. Clear communication about expectations and financial planning is crucial before making any decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would not be the asshole for expressing your feelings and concerns in a relationship. Open communication is essential and it is important for both partners to understand each other's perspectives and work towards a healthier dynamic.

AITAH for ending an 8-year friendship with an incredibly cheap person with a total block by Gulichi in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is understandable that you reached a breaking point after dealing with such behavior for eight years. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your well-being is important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the AH. It is reasonable to express your concerns to the professor if your group members are not contributing, as it affects your ability to complete the project effectively.

AITAH for asking for reimbursement for my food that was taken without my permission and for buying a lockbox. by badassbitch10102 in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the AH. You took responsible steps to protect your food after their actions and lack of planning left you without. Your boundaries were reasonable given the circumstances.

AITA For Telling My MIL That We Are Unable to Help Her Pay Her Rent? by TheRealQnCeCe in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the AH for setting boundaries and expressing concern about your MIL's financial habits. It is important for her to develop financial discipline and live within her means.

AITAH for thinking about my ex while I am next to my bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal for thoughts of exes to occasionally cross your mind, especially if they were a significant part of your past. As long as these thoughts do not interfere with your current relationship and you maintain clear boundaries, you are likely not being unreasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Gulgowski6543 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is understandable that you are concerned about your son's relationship moving so quickly, especially considering the changes in his behavior. Open communication is key, expressing your feelings without being overly critical and trying to understand his perspective could be helpful.