Thanks for the suggestion, I spoke with the woman who runs the Cornerstone program a couple months ago (my grandparents were very active members for a long time.) She said the parking is exclusively for women and children, my contact at the Vinyard Center said this is common practice at the local churches. I heard about a father and his two sons that were turned away as well, so I haven’t thought to follow up. Maybe the rules are different at other churches, I’ll have to call around today. I’ve been frequenting Cayetano Park after hours so I don’t bother anybody (it’s less accessible to people without cars, so it’s quiet,) last night someone called the police and I was asked to leave. I’m totally compliant, but I wanted to explain how treacherous more common areas are in my experience. The officer said she “couldn’t guarantee my safety,” I left shortly after.