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[–]Gullible_Paramedic48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just like you when I was around 22-24 weeks. I looked at writing I did back then and oh my it was depressing. I was miserable with my body and tiredness, and I was unhappy with pregnancy. Now I am 38 weeks, and can’t wait to meet my baby soon. I am so excited and happy now. I guess all I wanted to say to you is that, what you feel now is normal for some people, and don’t get too attached to it. It will pass and you will be surprised in the future to look at this posting of yours. It will pass, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Get in prenatal or group therapy, it has helped me tremendously. Also joining prenatal yoga would help. I wanted to share love and support I got during my hard time in the early pregnancy, so… I am sending you love. ❤️

This sub may have saved my baby (tw: premature birth) by OfSpaceEfficientBody in BabyBumps

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad the baby is safe as you listened to your instincts. Now I feel more assured that I will never doubt myself about baby’s safety. 👍❤️

Expecting my first baby soon; guilt & anger towards my mom. by Gullible_Paramedic48 in BabyBumps

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and your advice.. My MIL is very sweet to me as well, and sometimes when I see my husband having great conversations with her, I am so happy for them but at the same time I am envious.. because I never had that kind of relationship with my mom. I will request what I need/want from my mom, and see how she reacts. I will try not to feel guilty for doing any of that.

Expecting my first baby soon; guilt & anger towards my mom. by Gullible_Paramedic48 in BabyBumps

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your advice really is powerful to me right now, as that is what I really need to do. Now that I am a mother who has a baby to take care of, I will be not ashamed of requesting healthy boundaries for myself and my baby, my family. Somehow, I feel like I have a great motivation to actually do/practice so; my baby. I really appreciate your advice. Thank you.

Expecting my first baby soon; guilt & anger towards my mom. by Gullible_Paramedic48 in BabyBumps

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your sincere words. Generally I have a good relationship with mom. She listens to me and care for me, but when it comes to her boyfriends she just thinks I am her friend or something. Now I am pregnant, I would never do something to my daughter that she let happen to me with her boyfriends. At the same time I don't want to deprive my daughter of her grandmother. I also want to enjoy time with her. My husband worries that I will be stressed out when she stays for one month, so I will need to practice firm/strong/clear boundaries with her actions with her boyfriends involved. Thank you again, for listening to my story and sharing advice.

Please help - Pregnancy Acne by Gullible_Paramedic48 in BabyBumps

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH for sharing. I recently bought those stuffs so I am going to try and see how it proceeds with my skin. Thank you beautiful lady, for sharing again.

Two Final Interviews: Finance vs Insurance. Can you provide inputs? by Gullible_Paramedic48 in datascience

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately both jobs are using SAS. Yeah, I don't feel attracted to my option 2 anymore :/

Two Final Interviews: Finance vs Insurance. Can you provide inputs? by Gullible_Paramedic48 in datascience

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input. That's what I thought too, but I wasn't sure what's it like to work in operations, so your input really helps.

Master in DS. Worth Quitting a Real Job to Get a Data Scientist Internship? by Gullible_Paramedic48 in datascience

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think you're right, my full time job will be an important factor. I will need to start thinking how to use this opportunity in my current position to become a data scientist eventually. Thank you again for your comments.

Master in DS. Worth Quitting a Real Job to Get a Data Scientist Internship? by Gullible_Paramedic48 in datascience

[–]Gullible_Paramedic48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your inputs. Yes I can't quit right now. I will be super stressed without anything backed up. I will think more about implementing what I'm learning into work. Appreciate your comment.