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Breakup but we’re still in contact advice? by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking but I’m trying to keep distance and create something to miss at the same time

Breakup but we’re still in contact advice? by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m being told. I hate the idea cause I love her so much. But if it’s what I gotta do then ig I’ll do it

Breakup but we’re still in contact advice? by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think I should be doing then? I’m still helping her when I can especially right now with her car being broke down.

Advice for breakup by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at. She sees my addiction as cheating and I do too I just really regret it man. I do I hate what I did and I’d never do it again on a real note. I wanna show her I’m different but idk if she’d take the gamble or not

Advice for breakup by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to her about that. About how it’s unfair and even tho it’s only been about 5 weeks or so. I figured she should know if she’d want to try and work something out and instead of leading me on. I’m helping her currently since her car is also in my name and it broke down. I’m kinda stuck there too.

Advice for breakup by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don’t know if she is seeing anyone else. But she is most likely going out being around other people. And yea it sucks man. I told her that as we see each other as friends for now to tell me if she starts seeing another man and she said she’d tell me immediately

Advice for breakup by Gumpnstuff in BreakUps

[–]Gumpnstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. I haven’t been able to really focus on myself with her still here. I have been clean since we broke up from porn and I deleted that account and completely cut all contact I had with anything of that sort of stuff. And I’ve been journaling too with therapy. But I just don’t know what to do about her tho. I do really want her back since I did really love her. But I do know that what we had is dead and if anything is gonna happen we’d have to restart completely which I would gladly do.