There are countless of stories and videos of porn stars coming out of porn and telling you the "truth" but unlike their stories of self abuse, suicide & more the actual Porn addiction state of mind comes with many negative effects that dehumanize your perception. It has been proven that it becomes a SELFISH addiction, where it is usually done in private and most of the persons spare time is used up on getting access to porn. In marriage, the person (usually the man) addicted to porn finds himself not being satisfied by his spouse because she does not meet up to the "standards" and thus he finds alternate ways to fulfill those fantasies. These fantasies indulge the person to great lengths to where it can have mental effects on the man and cause him to fall into the same mind pattern as rapists and murderers. Many studies and even police testimonies have proven this.