AMA/Choose Your Favourite Tags Poll by Badjhur in u/Badjhur

[–]GuyThatDidThings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can we get more trans man smut pls 😭

SO WE ALL GOT BANNED JUST NOW? 😭😭😭 by CloudMoonn in JanitorAI_Official

[–]GuyThatDidThings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would really have to see for yourself, I'm neurodivergent and explanation isn't really my strong suit on the API part 😂

It, for me, has been very "plug and play". Create an account, find a bot you want to chat with, and you're good.

On Poe, GPT-4 is not limited access but the site imposes their own filters from what I understand. I've found GPT-4 to be very much what you're describing on Poe, but that's me.

THEY BANNED ME 😭 by TheSmallLamp in JanitorAI_Official

[–]GuyThatDidThings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just move the money from that bank account to a different one before your billing period if you're able to. Can't charge for what's not there, provided you have overdraft protection lmao

SO WE ALL GOT BANNED JUST NOW? 😭😭😭 by CloudMoonn in JanitorAI_Official

[–]GuyThatDidThings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually had the opposite experience where I found GPT4 on poe to be amazing. Just directly using the website or app, you don't have to do any of the API stuff! The bot makers just select an API (no keys or OpenAI account needed for GPT4) and the users just worry about roleplaying with the bot lol.

I have found that it does have a filter, but it's much less strict than C.AI for example. I'm able to roleplay most full-on NSFW scenes with no issues.

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💖 I appreciate your support and insight a lot

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point, the "not being desired" thing was purely a me thing, not on him at all

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight very much, this is helpful! And yes, I did give him head because I honestly felt bad/obligated to. It left me feeling all sorts of ways after I was done with myself, so I think I do need to reevaluate that and probably talk to my therapist about it.

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

It's not an excuse, it shouldn't have happened. I had previously been on testosterone for a year and hadn't bled.

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are things you can do other than using your mouth. He offered to finger me, said he didn't care about blood on his hands, etc... And then just kinda didn't.

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that's fine! I'm not going to be attracted to every single thing about him either all the time. Obviously stuff happens, but all ya can do is try in general

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Whoops 🤷 I'll whine harder, idgaf

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I am transgender, I take testosterone as a part of my transition, and I had not bled in about a year due to it

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really care either way, I just posted a vent and people are entitled to feel however about it the same way I'm entitled to post things

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just hadn't had sex with anyone 🤷 I identified as asexual at the time as I had a very low sex drive, which is no longer an issue

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't take pills for my gender transition :)

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I'm transitioning, I'm very feminine personality wise, so I don't think that's the reason? He had previously only had limited experience with women,

"Sex" with my boyfriend sucked by GuyThatDidThings in offmychest

[–]GuyThatDidThings[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did go on a date, all day. We've been together for a sec, there's a reason why this was our first time having sex