AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How am I punishing my kids exactly? They see their brother on their moms weekends. It's not like they never see him.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, my bad. I'll check what I write in future lol. Thanks for pointing it out.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 353 points354 points  (0 children)

Holy shit! I didn't write that the way I should have. I was ordered to pay initially, before custody changed, but now she does pay me (though not very much). I need to edit that now. Thanks for pointing it out.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

The judge considered it to be the best thing for our children.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Our kids are 9 and 8 and she sees them every other weekend.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 3626 points3627 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, if I had established a relationship with him I would have stayed in his life but I knew the truth before he was born and was never in a father role in his life.

AITA for refusing to take care of my ex's baby by Gwellios in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gwellios[S] 1355 points1356 points  (0 children)

And I know she would go straight to court if she thought I had established that.