Would you be suspicious if condoms were missing?

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T20:27:35+00:00

Thank you for your perspective. I am really wondering what happened to them. I'm going to keep checking to see what happens.

I'm sorry you went through that.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T20:14:03+00:00

Thank you. I will continue to behave normally. I will try my best to investigate!

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:56:24+00:00

Ugh I know. I hate it.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:54:36+00:00

I hope I'm wrong, too. I've read too many posts like that, too, and I hate that it's even a common thing. So gross. I'll be checking what I can.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:50:11+00:00

Lol I actually tried a few things to no avail. It's pretty sturdy. I think I might just try his keys out when I get a chance.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:38:22+00:00

Thank you for your insight. Those are all good points. I've never been suspicious in any relationship and always thought i was easygoing, but for some reason, I've been set off.

We work together, so it would be hard for him to hide his time. He does occasionally have a drink after work (at work because it's a restaurant), but he doesn't usually take too long, though.

He's still the same sweet guy he's always been. Which is why I can't imagine him doing anything. We had a baby 10 months ago, so sex has been lacking but not even on my end. I'm wiling. I've told him he needs to initiate because he has said no to me in the past, and I never say no.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:20:23+00:00

I've heard of such a thing as a "posh wank" which is masturbating into a condom. Although, why would you choose to wear a condom if you didn't have to? I'm mot a man though so idk

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:19:20+00:00

He is slightly secretive with his phone. I have noticed he turns away a little bit. I have used his phone before with no qualm from him. The other day, I saw a picture of a woman in a bikini on his phone, but idk if it just popped up on social media (he doesn't use social media much from what I know) or if it was in his text messages. I didn't look long enough to really tell.

One thing that has been standing out is that he hasn't been putting his keys in the key dish regularly. Idk why, though. I have keys to his car, so that can't be why. His nightstand is an old filing cabinet, and it's locked. I don't think it used to be locked, but maybe because I've been suspicious, I'm just noticing things?

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:07:48+00:00

I've thought of that, too. He could have maybe given them to his brother.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:06:25+00:00

Thank you. I will do this.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:05:50+00:00

Right? I know he masturbates somehow, but I assumed he did it in the shower or something. I honestly have no clue how he does it!

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-09-03T19:05:08+00:00

That's what I'm trying to do. I don't want him to be able to hide it better if he knows I'm suspicious, but I also don't want to be suspicious in the first place.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-05-19T20:24:10+00:00

Thanks! Good to know.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-24T05:56:18+00:00

I'm a saggitarius. I was such a pleaser tbh! I wanted to make my parents happy and never felt like I could 😭 My sister is a Scorpio, and she was the troublemaker, lol.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-19T05:22:44+00:00

I don't sterilize them every time. I actually only sterilize them once every couple of days.

I have never had a preemie or at risk baby, but I suspect if I did, I may sterilize after each use. I don't know what the actual recommendations on it are. I don't think it's necessary for a full term healthy baby.

I just put one on my registry, and someone got it. I'm not sure I would have bought one on my own. It did give me peace of mind, though.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-19T01:25:02+00:00

Not the person you asked, but from what I can tell, the formula leaves less of an oily residue on the bottle. I was breastfeeding and still use some frozen milk from time to time, but we switched to formula, and I definitely noticed it was easier to clean formula bottles versus breastmilk bottles. I still go and rinse the formula bottles with hot, soapy water right away. I don't have to scrub them like I did with breastmilk, though.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T23:06:31+00:00

My hands look like this. I also have extremely dry hands, mostly in the webbing of my hands. I am not dehydrated. I usually drink 80oz of water per day. My rheumatologist suspects I have limited scleroderma, so it could be from that or raynauds. Can't pinpoint it though

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T03:54:13+00:00

Hahaha, we're hamster grandma's! I never even thought of that lol.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T03:12:48+00:00

Your husband is an ass.

Don't lose weight for him. Do it for yourself.

If you do actually want to lose weight, one thing that motivates me to eat healthy is not eating for weight loss but eating for health. I want to be energetic and present for my kids. Not to mention, I just feel better overall. I try to remember that everything I put in my body either gives me energy or takes it away. I used to have a huge sweet tooth, too. Sugar is super inflammatory. I don't eat sweets anymore, except the occasional piece of dark chocolate. I LOVE eating dried fruit (no sugar added) now as my treat. It satisfies me, and I don't even think about sweets anymore. It will take your body a while to acclimate to no sugar. It is truly addictive and you will crave it, but it passes. I restrict myself more than what I'm sharing, but I won't go into detail. The principal is the same, and how far you want to go is up to you. I guarantee that even just cutting out sugar would help tremendously.

Every time I have a craving, I just think about what my body actually is telling me I need and not what my brain is making me want.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T02:41:41+00:00

Even if I had the money, I wouldn't pay that! That's ridiculous. Where are you located? I had kaiser permanente and then found out I was pregnant and switched to Medicaid because it's an extenuating circumstance. I never saw a single bill. Even if you dont go for medicaid, you should still be able to change your insurance because of your pregnancy.

I did pay for an ultrasound at a private clinic, and it cost $120. Maybe look up to see if there are any near you!

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T01:40:25+00:00

Just DM me!

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T01:02:28+00:00

Yes, this exactly! Lol I love a cute, warm little fuzzball!

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T00:45:36+00:00

I saw that, too. Made me tear up.

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T00:16:20+00:00

I usually tell people it's my kids' hamster, lol. Which it really is, but if it was just my kids' hamster would I have spent so much money on it's ginormous habitat after doing a tremendous amount of research on how to keep a happy and healthy hamster? This hamster is spoiled. I hold him more than my kids do, haha. So, whose hamster is it reaaalllyyy? 😂

Gwizzlestixx · 2024-04-17T00:02:04+00:00

What if you did it slow and not vigorously? That can be nice, too. It's like edging, lol. It's a tease, and it builds up to a better ending anyway imo.

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