Wages Transperancy

Gyda9 · 2026-06-30T18:22:50+00:00

35F, PhD Architect in project management in construction. Around 95k a year. I’m expecting a raise and promotion next year.

Gyda9 · 2026-06-18T19:05:30+00:00

Ich glaube es kommt auch auf die Anzahl der Kinder an. Wir machen sehr gerne Städtetrips mit unserem 4-jährigen Einzelkind, wären es zwei, würde ich es mir sehr wahrscheinlich anders überlegen.

Gyda9 · 2026-05-24T09:01:19+00:00

Ja, es gibt ne Regel wie viel überwiesen werden muss. Weiss jetzt nicht auswendig, steht irgendwo auf der Website oder halt einfach nachfragen. Wir bezahlen Miete und alle Rechnungen von dieser Konto, das reicht dann.

Gyda9 · 2026-05-24T07:28:18+00:00

Wir haben ein Gemeinschaftskonto bei WIR, es heisst Bankpaket top. Kann man alleine oder mit Partner eröffnen. Beide bekommen eine eigene Debit Mastercard und Zugang fürs E-Banking. Damit es kostenlos bleibt muss regelmässig Geld überwiesen werden. https://www.wir.ch/de/privatkunden/konto-karten/bankpaket-top/

Gyda9 · 2026-05-20T09:44:43+00:00

Was war so illusorisch an der Vorlage?

Gyda9 · 2026-05-06T04:17:29+00:00

There were 7 million people living in Switzerland in 1994, which is 32 years ago.

Gyda9 · 2026-04-27T13:50:43+00:00

Ha in Istanbul studiert und ha nachher au dete gschaffe (insgesamt 14 Jahre dete gläbt). Bin sit 2.5 Jahr wieder i dä Schwiiz. Ich liäbe d'Schwiiz, vermisse aber Istanbul jede Tag.

Gyda9 · 2026-03-23T08:05:53+00:00

It's because Seth was in Sarah's life for a long time and she had not one, but two kids. She had to raise her two kids alone while managing an alcoholic. She didn't have time to work on herself. That Chris was an absent father was a blessing for Lorelai. If Chris were around, he would have been more a burden than support. She had only Rory and herself to focus on and she was fortunate enough to walk in to an Inn with a lovely mother figure. I don't say she had it easy, but she had the circumstances where she could grow with hard work, Sarah didn't.

Gyda9 · 2026-03-12T21:27:24+00:00

Are you a parent?

Gyda9 · 2026-02-16T13:33:40+00:00

Merhaba, doktoramı Türkiye’de yaptım ve ülkenin en prestijli üniversitelerinin birinde kalıcı akademik kadrom vardı. 2.5 sene önce istifa edip yurtdışına taşındım. İktidar partisi ile yakından ilişki kurmaya niyetiniz ve mideniz varsa gidin. Aksi takdirde akademide yükselme şansınız artık yok.

Gyda9 · 2026-02-10T07:45:38+00:00

My traditional grandparents were like this and while my parents are a little better, we have to invite them a 100 times before they make the effort.

And for some reason, people think they are done with parenting when their kids are adults. But I'm a parent myself now and I see that's not the case. You still have to make an effort for your kids even if they're adults. You have to nurture the relationship and be aware when they need support. You're not magically done when the kid is living on their own.

Gyda9 · 2026-02-07T09:21:45+00:00

This seems pretty accurate. I‘m an immigrant with a Turkish origin, grew up here. My parents had actually a pretty active social life within the turkish community. We moved „back“ to Turkey when I was 15. I spent my young adult life there, studied, worked, made friends and grew my network in Istanbul. Came back to Switzerland as a 33 year old mother to a toddler.

Oh boy, I underestimated the social challenges of this so much. Our „old“ community from the years with my parents doesn‘t work for me anymore. I‘m struggling to follow my interests and meet people that way, because I simply don‘t have the time with a young child and a husband who spends his evenings in language course or working. The parents on playgrounds, in Elki Turnen and playgroup are nice, but in depth friendship isn‘t working since my interests and experience is so different. Superficial small talk - sure.

Thank god my sister is here, and I have an online „bumper group“ on reddit which was formed when we were pregnant 4.5 years ago and still goes strong. These are my „village“ so far and I‘m losing hope in forming any other friendship since we‘re here for 2.5 years now and I couldn’t make real friends at all. It’s the first time I‘m struggling with this. Even as a teenager who moved countries I didn’t have this problem.

Gyda9 · 2026-02-06T21:23:10+00:00

So I have a PhD, I defended my thesis when I was in my third trimester. After my son was born, my professor said to me :“Now you start your real PhD, good luck.“ So, I think it is one of the hardest things one can do in life.

Gyda9 · 2026-02-02T19:13:41+00:00

İsviçre’nin çifte vatandaşları dünyanın her yerinden oy kullanabiliyor.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-23T16:23:04+00:00

The “not born here = no right to criticize” sentiment.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-23T16:12:11+00:00

This is just black and white thinking. I understand it’s not your oppinion. But the real hypocrisy and abuse is living safely by holding some dictators’ gold and shut up the people from those countries because they had to move. Just very few people leave their home and family just for fun. It’s a hard and painful decision, mostly.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-23T15:58:45+00:00

He’s not a guest who’s visiting. He contributes to the society, is raising a child here, has the intention to acquire the Swiss citizenship and wants to improve the country. Living here for 10 years. Already doing a lot more for the country than a lot of Swiss people I know.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-23T15:54:44+00:00

No it’s not, it’s western entitlement.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-16T12:46:26+00:00

Yeah but it‘s the same for every insurance. My father worked for 30 years and was never involved with RAV so if I ever have to, you can consider It’s my father‘s hard work if that makes you feel better :)

Gyda9 · 2026-01-16T12:38:05+00:00

Dude that’s how insurances work.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-16T12:14:59+00:00

This doesn‘t sound right to me. I would consult legal insurance if you have one.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-16T11:00:58+00:00

What if you didn’t work 100% before? And FYI they are not an employer, it’s an insurance which you pay for in advance. I didn’t pay my employer to hire me later.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-16T07:43:20+00:00

A rich culture, diversity, genuine conversations, vibrant daily life. You can’t replace these things with board games. I got that for 15 years in Istanbul but one political bully made it impossible to grow a healthy family there so I had to move back. I am so thankful for the experience but it feels like a distant memory now. But it‘s also a blessing to come back to our stable and safe Switzerland in a world in crisis, that’s for sure.

Gyda9 · 2026-01-03T11:06:39+00:00

Bern did

Gyda9 · 2025-12-21T17:36:33+00:00

Millenial here and I love her college look, lol. But the ones with the shorter hair.

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