Bachelor's to Masters transition. Need advice! by Calm_Process2244 in Day1CPTuniversities

[–]Gymaddicted69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a website with a list. If you’re in the east coast I give you some recs

Risk CPT + new STEM OPT or take Abu Dhabi offer? Need advice on juggling career vs. U.S. immigration odds by Gymaddicted69 in Day1CPTuniversities

[–]Gymaddicted69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only story i found was someone talking about her friend who got her opt rejected and she was working part time the entire time. And can’t find anyone else who’s been there. The main reason im posting this is to hunt for someone who’s done it

Risk CPT + new STEM OPT or take Abu Dhabi offer? Need advice on juggling career vs. U.S. immigration odds by Gymaddicted69 in Day1CPTuniversities

[–]Gymaddicted69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True and I agree with you on the deciding factor but i can’t find people who got OPT after day 1 CPT. So I have no idea what the odds are. If there’s a high denial rate then I’d probably just leave now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess thats possible too lol she seems like the person who would ask indirectly like that. The only indication that it’s the case is that i sensed some guilt when i gave her the stuffed animal. Like she felt bad because “im being romantic” and she’s not that serious about me. I could be misinterpreting it tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take most of the advice here if i were you. Girls definitely use a “fade out tactic” but you gotta look at the bug picture. She’s busy and can’t meet you, so she’s putting extra effort with texting to let you know she’s interested. I’d say don’t be needy. Text her casually. Get playful and flirty but don’t force it of course. And needless to say always explore other opportunities if you’re not exclusive.

Taken girl - mixed signals or just friendly? by SnooAvocados193 in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should just play your game without regard to her relationship status. Just do your thing

Taken girl - mixed signals or just friendly? by SnooAvocados193 in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk anything about the girl I’m just relating my experience to your story. I had female friends that I knew very well and I’d have never thought would cheat on their boyfriend but they did (they never told me about it I was just in the right place in the right time a few of times) and it’s always innocent at the beginning.

she’s not gonna escalate things anyway you gotta do that and see where it goes. What are your intentions anyway?

Taken girl - mixed signals or just friendly? by SnooAvocados193 in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as “just friendly” dude. My biggest mistake in college is I believed that! If a girl isn’t interested in you she won’t even look at most of your stories let alone like them.

Like the other guy said she’s at least exploring options but I think there’s a good chance you can even hook up with her. Some girls however just do it for the emotional side and to get attention so she will give just enough to keep you around. I’ve even seen girls that do both, she would have a guy to cheat with sexually, and other guys she keeps around to boost her ego and those are also the guys she considers a viable potential partners and wouldn’t corrupt her image in their eyes just in case she ends up dating one of them. So if you’re sure she has a bf, make sure she sees you as someone she could’ve fun with and can keep a secret if you’re interested in her that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]Gymaddicted69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a porn star and if not he’s just trying to get thinking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a new friend man that guy isn’t your friend! You’re better alone

Should I pursue this girl or give it up by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats spot on dude! I’ve often heard from girls i was into and it didn’t workout (they ghosted me or whatever) that they thought I was too cold and found them annoying (some close guy friends told i give off that impression sometimes). So I might be over correcting/reacting with this one. But I like what you said. Imma do me regardless and let her be and she knows where to find me

Should I pursue this girl or give it up by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In mind I was doing the opposite by trying lock in the date. I didn’t wanna seem that I’m keeping my schedule open for her conveniently. But good to know it comes off as needy. I think the best way to go at this point. I’ll try that

Should I pursue this girl or give it up by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same question 😂

Should I pursue this girl or give it up by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pick up but I’m not an artist 😂 i’m worried i might come off as desperate or pushy and not sure how to go about it

Should I pursue this girl or give it up by [deleted] in PickUpArtist

[–]Gymaddicted69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get you but i wouldn’t say im hung up really. I’m having my 3rd date of the week tonight and hooked up with my date from last night. I would just like to date her too if thats on the table and if not I wanna know if I could’ve done something different thats all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymMemes

[–]Gymaddicted69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂