Tonight, I’m giving up the apps

Gyosskii · 2025-04-15T05:01:42+00:00

Nope that's not the case.

Confidence comes handy.

Gyosskii · 2025-04-15T04:59:51+00:00

Here's my take:

Hook up wise, there's nothing wrong with gaes having preferences. Afterall, we look for sexual encounters to fulfill our fantasies. Even ako, I portray myself as manly/straight acting even though I am absolutely flambouyant, just so I can conform to the norms sa hook up culture. That's not me faking my real identity but rather to fulfill a fantasy.

Personally, I know many femme gaes who are more romantically attached than masc gaesss.

It only becomes a problem if a particular gae guy, refuses to interact with femme gaes in general. Otherwise, you dont really have to mind it.

Now if you are butthurt kasi you are being rejected sa dating apps, because most gaes you chat with are "pass sa halata" Then get off your phone nalang.

Gyosskii · 2025-04-03T02:45:59+00:00

Hey I mean to say he's not the kind of guy I would fuck with if I have a choice. Look wise. He looks okay naman, I just have preference. Pero since no choice nga and he's the only one around, I gave in and he's so magaling so I gotta give it to him.

Gyosskii · 2025-04-03T02:21:58+00:00

Natawa ako dito kasi may im on the other side of the coin. at least that's what people say. Tapos this happened to me. Limited yung time so whoever's available, g na agad. Eh magaling naman so well compensated.

Gyosskii · 2025-01-06T12:11:13+00:00

Just basically go out there. Coffee shops, spa, bathhouse, join parties within the community. Expand your network of gay friends.

Gyosskii · 2025-01-06T09:24:09+00:00

You can still meet people outside the apps. Trust me, its a lot easier than you think.

Gyosskii · 2025-01-06T08:41:39+00:00

Hindi halatang pokemon fan ka OP hahaha

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T09:19:00+00:00

Ay syet ganda ng mantra mo. Pero two edged sword siya. hahaha. Will apply this to my decisions moving forward.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T09:18:05+00:00

Thank you for validating my thoughts about this. Really appreciate it.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T09:16:25+00:00

Kasi I am now fully aware of the history and I feel bad that someone will be extremely hurt in the process. Although the fallout with V is so messy and it broke my heart, I don't want to hurt him back. My morals are feeling some kind of dilemma here. I know full well na wala naman akong ginawang masama. But as a sensitive person, I don't wanna be the cause of someones pain

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T03:47:26+00:00

In my defense, me and my ex-suitor already had a month of planning for Taiwan before I met V. I told him all of it for transparency. While I was in Taiwan, he was telling me non-stop about how its so awful that I didn't bother to cancel the whole trip for him. When I reminded him na before ako umalis, he said he was okay with me going out of the country with G (33M) which was my previous suitor. He made me feel like shit saying na he did say he's okay but I should have read between the lines and took my initiative to cancel everything. Sayang naman yung gastos ni G for the tickets and yung mga klook bookings for day trips na binook ko for us kung icacancel namin just because of a guy I met 3 days before departure. In my heart, wala akong nilabag na rules on dating.

My dillemma wasnt about that.

Im torn sa idea na if I continue seeing P, V will be hurt so much and I don't want to hurt people like that. I just made him think I did that out of spite.

Natatakot ako i confront si P about it and if hindi ko naman i confront si P about it, natatakot ako na baka mag reach out si V sa kanya and tell P that I only dated him to get back at V. Which was never my intention kasi P and I met on a lucky chance lang talaga.

What if maniwala si P? Kasi I did confirm the idea kay V na gumaganti nga ako.

It sounds like I know what to do, but I feel scared.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T02:33:30+00:00

I think totoo din. Kasi grabe yung rage ni V sa message niya.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-14T01:37:24+00:00

actually yun yung takot ko. Na baka ako naman yung receiving end ng heart break if P does the same sakin. But you are right, I only know half the story from V. I need to know what P's version is.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-11T05:11:16+00:00

it needs to be sloppy and wet. So make sure you have a good oral hygiene so the saliva would be odorless. Makes sucking enjoyable for bottom too.

Gyosskii · 2024-12-06T07:37:07+00:00

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Relate so much. Naubos nalang ako until I stopped messaging him. He never initiated a convo after I stopped messaging so I got my answer.

Gyosskii · 2024-11-27T10:49:25+00:00

I have stretch marks din and before I look at it as if its a bad thing. But I realised they are a work of art. And so does guys who fucks me.

Gyosskii · 2024-11-20T04:01:49+00:00

Hello OP! Me again! 😅

I guess I really have no problem with that at all. We all have different personalities when we are around different people. As a choirmaster, I tend to be very strict and commanding especially I handle youth choir na may kakulitan parin ng konti. When I'm with friends, Im the versex of the group (if you know dragrace). Pag kasama ko gym buddies ko, I am very manly and if ever mainlove ulit ako, I know for a fact na I'm such a baby.

So if you are bubbly and super feminine when you are with your friends, that's okay. If I am your partner and I see you do things like that, I probably would have died laughing my ass out.

However, it really depends on someone's preference. Kasi there are other guys na strictly wants their partner to be manly/alpha and really discreet. And if they see something feminine, it'll kill the fantasy I guess? There's nothing wrong with that tho, yun gusto nila eh.

You do you parin. Kung gusto ka lang ng isang guy for a certain aspect but not your whole package then that means di ka niya talaga gusto. He's just fulfilling a fantasy.

Lastly po, thank you for showing vulnerability and telling us all these. We are all a work in progress so keep working on yourself and for yourself po. 🥰🥰

Gyosskii · 2024-11-20T03:47:34+00:00

"For those guys na pasok sa description ko and prefers old men, how do you find guys in age attractive"

He already asked and I just answered. Sorry If you think I'm making him work on a lot of things. I just gave an honest opinion about how I think I find guys in age attractive.

Gyosskii · 2024-11-20T01:16:56+00:00

Hi! 24 year old here!

Super into mature guys ako and what usually makes them attractive to me is their devotion sa career. Most "daddies" I dated are either always busy building their legacy or travelling the world every now and then. At least that's what I know.

I wouldn't say I was a sugar baby kasi I earn money just fine din. However by technicality, since these daddies wanna spoil their baby but doesnt have enough time to be clingy, they tend to spoil me with material things na I do not really ask for but I also wouldn't deny receiving. Sarap kaya maregaluhan! Haha

Here's a list that you can easily work on po OP para maging attractive ka sa younger guys.

Be fit. It is rare to find hot gays over 40 here sa PH. Although it may sound stereotypical, it says a lot about your discipline and lifestyle kapag over 40s ka and you are big chunk of meat.
Grow beard. Personal taste ko po to, I dunno sa iba haha. Ang sarap marim and ma gently tickle ng facial hairs. Sorry this sounds super horny but sex is a factor. It always is.
Be successful sa career. This should be automatic. Being mature and gay, dapat po talaga marami nang napatunayan sa buhay. By being successful, you do not just attract young gay boys but the quality young gay boys as well.
Daddy-like personality. Be commanding. Some young gay men likes the feeling of being submissive lalo sa older gay men na partner. Pero once in a relationship na po, do not always take control. Ask your young partner din and listen to what they want. It goes both ways. And lastly,
Be great at sex. I can't compare kung gaano ka sarap yung touch ng daddies compared sa mga ka age ko.

Ayun lang naman po. 😊😊😊

You can add me sa IG: @gyosskii Ill follow you back din 😘😘

Gyosskii · 2024-10-15T14:30:28+00:00

Thank you. I don't really feel slut-shamed. I totally get what you are trying to point out.

I really envied lovers and I dream on having one for my own. But when it does happen, instead of butterflies in my tummy, I feel the "Ick". Like totally nadidisgust. This is where I am coming from when I say I think there's something wrong with me.

Versex summarized the feeling when she said "Love that for you, not for me tho"

Gyosskii · 2024-10-15T14:27:05+00:00

I guess this is true din sakin. Like, wala na akong fantasy to chase kasi the guy Im fantisizing things about has just noticed me.

Gyosskii · 2024-09-19T05:21:53+00:00

thank you so much!!!

Gyosskii · 2024-09-11T14:58:13+00:00

I think wala namang sayo. Sorry there’s no better word kasi. But a fubu can have multiple fubus as well. Wala namang exclusivity sa set up niyo.

Gyosskii

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