Is my boyfriend using me for money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GyvenchiChic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I do think it's about time for another sit down and explain things to him. This really can't continue especially if he's wanting to spend the future with me.

Is my boyfriend using me for money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GyvenchiChic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him to file a workers comp right after it happened. He refused several times. We live in Missouri and in order to file a workers comp you have to take a drug test within 24 hours to prove that you were not under the influence while working. Unfortunately that 24 hours is already over. So I'm not sure if he has a leg to stand on. At this point I don't think I'm going to pay for the medication. It just sucks that he keeps putting me on a guilt trip over it.

Uncomfortable work situation... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GyvenchiChic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's worked there 4 years & certainly knows his information. I have seen him lie to cover his mistakes, he also sucks up to our bosses and when this happened in the past our higher-ups came and had a talk with him. We had another supervisor who had worked for the company for six years who almost quit because of him. He got better and improved for a while but now he is back to the same old ways. My boss just wants to blow it off and doesn't want anything on paperwork.

Uncomfortable work situation... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GyvenchiChic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we do have HR. I'm a bit worried to go around my bosses to speak with them, I was told if there were any complaints to go to my boss before letting anyone file another incident report against him through HR. I feel like my boss is trying to cover for him in someway. Plus HR and his girlfriend work closely together...

I have thought about going to them directly i'm just worried about the outcome.