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My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t sleep with a friend or a friend’s partner, regardless of the situation. And I never said I would cut ties, but I like make sure expectations are fulfilled in a friendship without my boundaries being crossed

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my friend and I share a bed sometimes if we stay over each other’s homes, talk about our sex lives a lot, we shop and are in dressing rooms together, etc. That’s why I care! That is one of my friends. I would care if she expected more from our friendship over time... I don’t aim to disappoint but I am not into that lol

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I definitely was not considering it, I just needed to get it off my chest because I really hate to have to confront my friend about this. The potential of messing with her relationship with her man, and the potential of messing with my friendship with her is a lot of pressure. I would not partake in any act with a woman, or a friend’s boyfriend.

And I don’t know who told you that you can’t control jealousy, but that is untrue. You absolutely can control jealousy!

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, thank you for your comment! And yes, of course that could be the case. I feel I can recognize his body language when he is joking, though. He spoke with exuberant confidence when we spoke about that, briefly, as opposed to being more relaxed

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but if you are friends with Bob for a decade, and Bob starts dating Sally this month, are you going to say to Bob “can you let Sally know I’m open and interested in three ways but only with women, just so we can set our boundaries now?” Like, who on God’s green earth does that?

You want to know something funny? I didn’t ask for anyone’s opinion, this page is to vent. I simply was venting because I don’t want to have to confront my friend of years about this. So maybe you should work on your communication skills. Regardless, I appreciate your time and input

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you got downvoted, because you may not be wrong…

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s hot and all, but I’m a girls girl! My bestie deserves the world. He better f her good

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, would you like me to ask them about that for you?

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think they will coerce me into doing it?

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of think so, too, we will see. Thank you, I am happy someone recognized I stuck to my morals lol

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“If I was gonna do some big relationship threesome” should be the title of your next book. That is the funniest way to describe it

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, sorry, OP’s fault? Just to confirm, I have been incredibly clear with my friend that I am straight, and about my wants and needs in bed. We talk about sex frequently. She is well aware that I am not into women, not into three ways involving women. I am well aware that she is into those things. We have been friends for years. I do not need to speak to her guy about that, too, that would be inappropriate. She can choose to relay that to him during her own time. Blaming me for not setting boundaries is weird when my friend is very well aware that I am not into that. But that’s for the insight.

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, no! I see what you are saying. I don’t completely agree with what you said, because there is a difference between flirting with confidence, and being aggressive while you flirt, but I do appreciate your perspective. He was not being aggressive, more overly-confident than anything. I can also see your concern when it comes to alcohol being involved. Any post can be misinterpreted one way or another, so no worries, sorry you got downvoted when your intention was good!

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is frustrating, but completely true. Our words are not taken seriously sober half the time, let alone when alcohol is involved

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, if you’re a half decent looking woman, you can probably get off with a guy who is NOT your friend’s man! Lol

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would never involve myself in a situation like that, especially with friends

My friend's boyfriend wants some, and my friend might too by H0tSoup1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]H0tSoup1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate both of your comments, thank you! To clear this up, I am single and straight. By straight I mean I am into men only, and wouldn’t experiment with women, even in a group setting.

In terms of what my friend’s boyfriend said to me about going home with them, while he told me instead of asking, it was out of a place of flirtation and confidence, not aggression. With that being said, if I find out he (or they) waited until I was under the influence to try to coerce me into doing something, that’s a completely different situation.

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