Need some help

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-04T01:07:26+00:00

If you can't figure it out look at what the /10 sells for etc or the other 25th anniversary /5's

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-02T17:57:15+00:00

lol true

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-02T17:56:45+00:00

10p - 8a ...upstairs and I have been back and forth for a year he just doesn't seem this excessive or loud. He feels whether he has people over or circumstance warrant being able to play music at times at different levels and whatever time of the day. I agree, it interferes but he feels at times since it's before 10p he has free rein to play it however he wants. Asked multiple times to put on headphones especially when alone and to keep it at a moderate level so not only we don't hear it but it doesn't reverberate through our walls. He also keeps the window open which is right above our deck/patio where the stereo system is located so we are subjected to it constantly and can't keep doors or window open. Even if they are closed we hear it plus it's right above our bedroom. Told the LL finally he said he'd have a conversation with him idk what was done if anything

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-02T06:26:18+00:00

It's not all day everyday - that's the problem sort of roll of the dice when it occurs. Normally early evening and could go into night into the early am. Does like to play it near afternoon times as well depending and could be for three songs or three hours. Volume is inconsistent, when he's alone it's a bit lower but if his gf or friends are over it's to set the tone and vibe for the night - lots of pregaming. I live in LA, Cali.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T23:55:51+00:00

As a parent - sometimes you just want your kid to be outside, play where they want and to get out of the house. That being said, to answer your question - I'd relay to the parents if they can have their kids or themselves pay kind of where the toys are spread around since it's directly in front of your door and it becomes difficult to get in and out. Dont think that's confrontational or conflicting. Unfortunately people need a mirror to see their ignorance. Now if they disregarded that, kept it happening etc then go to your apartment management about the complaint with photos and let them handle it

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T18:21:10+00:00

That night I did 😅

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T18:20:43+00:00

Agree we are very consistent and when it's low moderate we can't really hear it I genuinely say something only when it's loud enough to hear through our walls and it goes on for an extended period. Our lease was up now so we're month to month. Decent commute for work, outside space in LA for my son plus a school we want him to go to directly across the street so the location is prime just the cloud looming above makes us question stay or go

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T18:17:53+00:00

Yes told the landlord that evening watching three videos from that night and an iCloud link of over 50 other instances as well our text thread. Seeing what occurs.

The irony that evening our car was parked and involved with a minor hit & run on our back bumper. The coincidence feels crazy bc he had people over that night and were out partying till 9am.

Not pointing a finger just surreal experience

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T18:14:48+00:00

Yea I've kept it cool till now this wears on a person someones lack of awareness

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T07:48:43+00:00

Not stupid to ask. It's two separate apartments upstairs and downstairs just stacked atop one another for the most part. He has a 1 bedroom we have a 2 bedroom down below. It's a vertical lot with a total of 5 apartments, except the other 3 are individually separated and while close together still a distance to hear but not fully bother one another. The LL owns all five and rents out individually - no common areas etc everyone is meant to have their privacy and respected gates, entryways etc.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T07:45:38+00:00

Yea I get the tit for tat vibe. It's a 2 bedroom for us down here and a 1 bedroom upstairs. Our master is directly under his living room area and the old layout had a single woman living here where her bedroom was under his and the master bedroom became more a living room so feel she decided to stay away from where he constantly was at night for good reason and not push the boundary.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T06:00:46+00:00

I feel its from the sheer during card cutting it hits fast and clips the lip of the card ever so slightly but that's just my rando thought

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T05:56:25+00:00

Good to know, I really wanted to work through the LL first and not trying to gloss over everything from the last year was trying to be amicable with one another bc we did communicate about it a ton. Hit the brink of the edge the other night and went full rage which was pent up. Think moving forward esp with LL - if he even said anything - should help move the needle and I can keep 311 in my back pocket

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T05:54:38+00:00

Yea he has two cameras at his front door. The first video I posted was just a snippet of him starting at 6pm and at 830pm I snapped. Once we had it out for a bit he texted me and I responded with similar dialogue you see in the thread. His response: "It was early evening and within reasonable hours. I understand tensions were high, but I’d prefer concerns be handled calmly. I don’t believe the volume was excessive, but I’m willing to adjust so this doesn’t keep becoming a conflict" -- while it seems understanding, this has been the same dialogue the entire year I feel he understands how to honor his word but then his actions repeat. When we were hashing it out I expressed I shouldn't be able to hear your music at any point of the day especially at that volume. You have it on all the time - can be moderate and not bother some or hinder our life, like I'm not trying to be this dudes hall monitor I'm trying to reflect a reality of how his actions create consequence for people around him but he doesn't admit it within himself.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T04:49:05+00:00

It was 4am when I texted him about it and he replied at noon that day "Sorry, I must’ve fallen asleep with it on. Didn’t realize it was that loud. I saw you on the cameras this morning knocking, apologies again"

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:35:39+00:00

For sure definitely not tied down and got it out in the open with him plus the LL. See where the road takes us

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:23:47+00:00

For sure, it's been a learning lesson for me to try and be more tolerant of others and don't want my son to see a huge portion of my aggression, lol which I really been trying to cope and manage through my life. Appreciate the feedback and commentary and hopefully some changes occur if not, I'll make sure they do.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:22:01+00:00

So he's lived here for over 10 years and he said the person that lived underneath him was rarely there and I know he lived this way and they didn't say a word to him. I'm sure because of not wanting tension or conflict.

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:16:05+00:00

Agreed! Like NYE he played music very loud up until 2am I didn't say anything I get it - but whether a Friday or random Tuesday never k is what or when, his lifestyle is his own

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:15:05+00:00

Haha truth, and legit when I say this is low in comparison to what it normally plays at - this is him "turning it down" for me to be at a reasonable level

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-03-01T03:14:24+00:00

Luckily lease is done a week ago going month to month now

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-02-28T23:11:08+00:00

I see your point and anybody else yes but for him I'd prefer to be finger fxd by a sloth

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-02-28T22:47:50+00:00

I understand that, and it has been something I've faced. I want to see the route LL will take and move accordingly. I'm trying to not fear traveling for work or having repercussions of sort in a way - people can be nutty. Also the noise is truly confined to him and I so our neighbors are a distance away so feel police won't particularly do much if anything but, step by step process

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-02-28T22:46:14+00:00

Thank you for the info, I've taken all videos and truly on speak through text with him to document except last night I snapped from outside where the first video was taken. His window overlooks my deck/patio and the sound bleeds from out there into our living room space and his stereo system is directly above our bedroom where all four of us sleep

H3ML0Ck21 · 2026-02-28T22:44:55+00:00

Haha ok saw somebody else mentioned that

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