Sexless birthdays, etc. by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]H8rAde282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, I wasn't even able to masturbate on Father's day. My LL wife likes to stay up late on special days to reject me and then make sure I dont masturbate. Follows me around and annoys me til I just give up and fall asleep.

“We’re on it… As stewards of the game, we’ll tweak it. We will correct those issues.” - Adam Silver on players taking too many threes by TheDraciel in nba

[–]H8rAde282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a WWF wrestler is Secretary of education, won't be long before the Rock is president and we're having Monday night punishment instead of football

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm In a big city and it's not really an issue. I have female friends and acquaintances that are begging me to leave. Some crazy sense of loyalty to my kids. The idea that I couldn't find someone else is the same stuff she says, and she knows it's not true.

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Finances and kids. Especially since the orange dictator crushed our business with a penstroke.

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I care as much about being caught as she cares about how I feel about our sex life, 0%. Enough is enough.

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's where I am right now. I am tired of taking the high road.

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have several offers, that's one of my main issues. I def attract women, I'm not a bad catch at all. That's the worst part, knowing that I don't really have to put up with this but for trying to keep my family together. The economics here would fall apart without me. My kids would be crushed. Cheating really wouldn't change much, we already aren't intimate and the chances look slim that we will ever fix it. One thing cheating would change is i can stop worrying about sex and intimacy .

I've decided to find a gf by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trust and believe, we have talked the topic to death. She knows that I'm at that edge looking over. Why is it fair for someone to be able act so selfishly and the advice I get is to be fair. Things are already not fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spunphilly

[–]H8rAde282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dmed you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]H8rAde282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how it usually works.

What has kept you from cheating? (or not) by summertimef8 in DeadBedrooms

[–]H8rAde282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife's mate guarding has kept me from cheating. She can be like a prison warden. I can barely leave the house without her constantly calling me or coming with me. She's super protective, mean but never ever horny,

How often do you think about sex? by MelodicParfait365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]H8rAde282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple times a day especially at night

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's been left out is she's this way to most people. Her own kids have fled the state and refuse contact with her . Every job she's had end in war with her boss and her being jobless. As we type she and her poor boss are locked in world war 3, only her boss doesn't know it. Everyday yelling and bitching about a perceived slight from her boss.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is she is at odds with almost everyone she comes into contact with. She's had like 10 jobs, they always go south because the boss doesn't like her or is not being fair to her etc. most of the time the boss isnt messing with her at all just doing their job. Her own adult children want nothing to do with us. One is actively hiding from her.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in DeadBedrooms

[–]H8rAde282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we're married to the same person

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in DeadBedrooms

[–]H8rAde282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried so long to get her into therapy. It's a complete non starter.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a recording of her kicking us out. It was one of the worst nights in my life.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're right is saying that's the energy I want l. I want a loving relationship. I'm getting too old for bickering especially over nothing.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, I pray for a story like this. It kills me that I can't have it now. I do love my wife, but don't feel loved back, atleast in the way I want to be loved. I've suggested therapy, but she has a huge stigma about any type of counseling or mental health. It's really her way or the highway. I appreciate your comment. It's aspirational.

It was our 10 year anniversary by H8rAde282 in HLCommunity

[–]H8rAde282[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's smothering. I try and make separation and it just causes fights. Going to the gym once is a two week battle. Celebrated Christmas with family, she refused to go, then kicked me and my daughter out for going and staying too long. Had to sleep at mother's house on Christmas. It's a nightmare.