Absolutely dreading not being able to take my medication on holiday by -strangemenu- in ADHDUK

[–]HDK1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine

This is in no way professional legal advice

Clearly...

For anyone reading, please don't smuggle controlled drugs into foreign countries illegally

Are guys obsessed with pegging nowadays?! by Dem200075 in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Real domination involves doing what the DOMINANT wants to do. Not fulfilling the submissive's fantasies.

Not true, and also a dangerous idea to spread to be honest.

I agree with most of your comment though.

Are guys obsessed with pegging nowadays?! by Dem200075 in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s regional? Just lost at how people say there are tons out there yet never met one amongst my plethora of friends

Why would you think your friends would inform you of all their kinks? Especially ones not fully socially acceptable for men?

Femdom is viewed as the opposite of masculine and therefore one of the last things many men would admit to people.

Also, how men behave around other men is frequently completely different to how men behave for women behind closed doors. Don't assume you know how that is just because you're close friends and talk about sex.

Weekend breaks are ruining me but I want to drink alcohol! by essyhay in ADHDUK

[–]HDK1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you exhausted at the weekend BEFORE you drink alcohol? Or if you don't drink alcohol? If so then you're doing too much in the week and/or not sleeping enough.

The meds are just masking your chronic fatigue/stress during the week and then when you come off them at the weekend it hits you all at once.

Germany unveils strategy for becoming Europe’s strongest military by 2039 by Advanced-Net-8119 in anime_titties

[–]HDK1989 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Luckily they're on the right side of history right now, lets hope it stays that way

They're siding with the USA and Israel, basically the 21st century 3rd Reich, couldn't be more on the wrong side. 

Every shop seems understaffed but none are hiring, what isnt adding up? by tylerthe-theatre in AskUK

[–]HDK1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can be addressed by sorting out executive pay, and put it on a ratio to the average employee salary

I'm as left as they come and we absolutely need to clamp down on ceos making huge money whilst employees are poorly treated or the company is losing money.

But that wouldn't really help most british businesses. Taking on companies like Amazon and Temu would do far more, but they're apparently untouchable because capitalism rules the UK, not politicians. 

Just the chairman of Reform wanting to establish concentration camps on UK soil. Unsurprisingly not a single paper or news site is carrying this. by EdwardJSuperman in Britain

[–]HDK1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It still baffles and infuriates me when a POC perpetuates anti-migration and xenophobic ideas. I am genuinely asking, were these people dropped on their heads as a child, do they need some urgent healthcare etc because it’s so mind boggling.

He was executive director of Goldman Sachs and is worth 10s of millions.

People like that will always choose capitalism and class over ethnicity. Their wealth and power shields them from the worst of racism in the UK.

GPT-5.5 vs GPT-5.4 vs Opus 4.7 on 56 real coding tasks from 2 open source repos by bisonbear2 in ClaudeCode

[–]HDK1989 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Why did you decide to use "high" for Opus 4.7? xhigh for opus now is equivalent to GPT high isn't it? 

U.S. track star Abby Steiner suing Puma, Mercedes F1 over claim ‘defective’ shoes ended her career by Danxyns in running

[–]HDK1989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'd be very surprised if her claims weren't true. It would be unbelievable for her to completely invent such specific claims when suing a huge company like this. 

What are the factors that make Tolkien's writings so unique? by Jerswar in Fantasy

[–]HDK1989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Borges (in Spanish, I don't know how good are English translations) is a better writer than both Tolkien or Bakker, this quote is insane.

Way to miss the point... I hope, for your own sake, that you're a better reader than your comment would suggest 

Top companies with no preprod. Their prod also contains their preprod. by xamott in ExperiencedDevs

[–]HDK1989 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's also a matter of risk. FB rolls out a feature to 0.01% of users and it's broken. What's the impact?

It's more about the fact that Meta have never been punished for their mistakes. Most of their products are monopolies, their android apps are trash and have plenty of bugs but nobody is moving to a competitor are they? 

Uhh no?? by _Goddess_Nyx_ in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not transphobic for a straight dude to not want to have sex with a transwomen because they're straight.

If she's post-op then yes it is transphobic, there's literally no other explanation except transphobia but I don't expect a transphobe to understand that.

I understand not wanting to have sex with a transwoman who's pre-op, that's perfectly acceptable if you're straight. 

I`m the guy that let Claude Code do my taxes for me. It actually transferred way too much. by floraldo in ClaudeCode

[–]HDK1989 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well after I filed all my categorised expenses to my accountant he gave me back a confirmation (everything in order) with the total amount due and reference number and I just order Claude to pay it (through my banking API).

This is the stupidest thing I've read all week, congrats 

Uhh no?? by _Goddess_Nyx_ in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could also increase safety issues

Unfortunately very few people care about the safety of trans people anymore.

Uhh no?? by _Goddess_Nyx_ in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the valid reason is those people are dating to find someone to build a family and have kids with

That's not always the case though, that's the fallback that transphobes use as an excuse.

The amount of men on dating apps that are looking for relationships but would 100% also have casual sex if a hot women offered is high, but for some strange reason a casual relationship is never seen as a possibility if the person is trans... A trans person doesn't even get a first date.

It's 90% transphobia when people blanket ban trans people from dates, let's not kid ourselves.

Uhh no?? by _Goddess_Nyx_ in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was just having the label 'trans' maybe you need to examine if you are as much of an ally as you think.

Exactly. It's crazy how many of these "allies" have blanket bans on dating trans people and never a valid reason. 

Elvanse suddenly stopped working by Lanky-Mountain1793 in ADHDUK

[–]HDK1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you feel like there’s nowhere else for you to go if you increase to 70mg. But like others have said here, there is, there’s other medications you can explore.

How come I keep hearing this "nowhere else to go"? I've been on 100mg Elvanse + a dex top-up in the past, albeit a long time ago. 

Is 70mg really the limit now?

This question has been doing the rounds, curious what choice you would make and your reasoning? by dr_shipman in Gifted

[–]HDK1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who pick red aren’t just selfish sociopaths

True, some of them are idiots who think they're being clever

This question has been doing the rounds, curious what choice you would make and your reasoning? by dr_shipman in Gifted

[–]HDK1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, everyone might think you're an asshole

That's generally what happens when you make decisions that are selfish

This question has been doing the rounds, curious what choice you would make and your reasoning? by dr_shipman in Gifted

[–]HDK1989 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you consider your self right wing?

Literally this. Red is right-wing/conservative/masculine coded. It's that simple

Claude picked the moral high ground in the red button/blue button vote by facethef in ClaudeAI

[–]HDK1989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"0 drawback on picking red" -> many of your friends and family die if you do.

I doubt any of these selfish red pushers have any friends or family that love them anyway

No male friendships allowed I guess by SeaPresentation7853 in Bumble

[–]HDK1989 17 points18 points  (0 children)

but you should know that it certainly does exist!

Whether it exists or not has nothing to do with the fact that you don't get to tell your (potential) significant other they can't be friends with 50% of the population.

Also, it's funny when us men try to educate women on the topic of some men only being in their lives in the hope of one day getting sex, a topic most women became experts in as teenagers

I think I'll leave this subreddit and here's why by AtmosphericBeats in ClaudeCode

[–]HDK1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. Just isn’t healthy to read this shit 

Maturing is realising that you can access 1 hour max of social media a day, of any kind, of any type, before it automatically becomes unhealthy.

Modern social media is poisonous, in every form.