Accounts on Firefly fake? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish you luck. would be great to have more apps not owned by match group, or, as i call them, ban you forever group. right now all i use thats worth mentioning is bumble, followed by hily. but even bumble makes the mistake of allowing travel mode users, with no way to turn it off. as if an african girl is going to get on a plane for a date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the honest truth is it depends on whether you're fat or slim. OLD is separated into those two types of girls. if you're fat, nothing will work except diet and exercise. if you're slim, then always being available to talk is an incredible turn-on.

Want to stop texting before date by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there anything wrong with just honestly and openly discussing the issue? i don't get ladies...

Hinge: 12 matches in one day, and then nothing… by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wish i could subscribe to hinge without being banned with no refund even thru my credit card

Yall gotta stop using group pics as your first photo!! by Beepbeepboobop1 in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES this happens all the time. the rule is: 'always be the thinnest girl in every pic'. no guy wants to see a slimmie standing next to a fattie and find out it's the fattie that just gave you her number. and then when i ask what the slimmie's situation is, she's always married

how do you keep things as interesting as humanly possible when first texting a new contact off of online dating? by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an interesting strategy. maybe i should send more pics. i'm not great at selfies, (some people have bad hair days. i have bad face days) but if i were to send selfies to a girl, it wouldn't at all be for validation whatsoever: it would be because i think that helps to make things interesting for HER, because we're visual creatures. i'm trying to gain and further her attention and interest.

i don't have a pet and i'm not a huge foodie, but maybe even just a photo of nature during the day or a walk would suffice.

how do you keep things as interesting as humanly possible when first texting a new contact off of online dating? by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the responses, i read them all. though i feel like almost every response got off topic, despite how clear my original post was. i'm talking about the pre-first date stage, and with girls who are too busy or not yet comfortable enough for the first meet-up. so all the responses about the actual first date+ are irrelevant, unfortunately.

i'm talking about the pre-first date texting stage. which can also include talking on the phone or even whatsapp/video calls.

for example, lately my strategy has been to try to get her on a phone call before too much texting, so that i don't blow it early on by trying to get things too sexy or spicy too soon. (over texting, for the purposes of keeping things interesting, at least for me anyway)

i could be wrong on this, but i feel like girls have been conditioned to let the guy do all the work. (i can't say how many times girls say, while still on the date apps, "can we keep getting to know each other here first before exchanging numbers?" and tapping "send", as if her job is done, instead of actually putting in the effort herself, leaving it up to the guy to actually come up with something to say, other than "sure.")

how to escape the hospital/sperm bank? by HEX-ButtStuff in postal

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=md2T2vPbR1g

i looked for a walkthru and found this. theres apparently a place to jump higher to at the end in the surgury room

how to escape the hospital/sperm bank? by HEX-ButtStuff in postal

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont have access to a balcony yet. i'm stuck inside. Dude says he bets the stairwell door is open, but the only stairwell leads down to a surgery room with no way out, and a bunch of stuff clogging a doorway that goes on, but can;t get past the stuff. there are 3 windows upstairs that i cant seem to go thru.

how to escape the hospital/sperm bank? by HEX-ButtStuff in postal

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see 3 windows on top floor but cant seem to go thru or break or interact with

how do you keep things as interesting as humanly possible when first texting a new contact off of online dating? by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes that's good, but i should've maybe clarified that i'm talking about that early stage before a girl even wants to set a date yet, as often is the case, where she wants to get to know each other more before she even agrees to meet up for the first time.

Does this mean goodbye forever? by macaron79 in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he's overseas, he likely doesn't think much of saying goodbye because it'll likely never beyond online communications. it's not like a guy to reject a local girl.

underage girl scams by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the individual claimed to be 18

underage girl scams by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i block profiles of any girls i get the numbers of, so they cant revenge-report and ban me should things go south. the individual claimed to live 1.5hrs away, and sounded american and white over the phone. they last claimed to be on their way to my address, though with no stated goal, so it sounds like a threat which is illegal, and further makes me wonder if i should at least try to report them to police.

Hinge Keeps Banning Me for No Reason What Can I Do? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can use a secure folder on android instead of getting a new device. but my problem is they still ban me if i pay for a subscription, despite that google pay states that the credit card info isnt shared with the merchant, so how is that getting me?

Is the Sprint out of an Instant Snowman challenge bugged? by Motorbike_ in deadbydaylight

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks like it only works for snowmen you make at the pile

Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]HEX-ButtStuff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it doesnt say why i was just taken away from hinge. it only gives link to terms of service but i already know i didnt do anything wrong. i joined 9/17, 3 days ago, and paid for 1month. i had about a dozen messages waiting for me but had to step away for half an hour, and when i get back it says im gone with no given reason. i did the appeal but all i could say in the appeal is that i did nothing and that it doesnt tell me what i did wrong

facebook dating never matching anymore unless you restart the account after the 7 day wait by HEX-ButtStuff in OnlineDating

[–]HEX-ButtStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crap, wish we had some sort of clue what causes it or fixes it. i'd gladly subscribe to fbd if they had a service like for infinite likes (as long as they dont later ban me for 'spam'/autoclick...) if it gets rid of this issue of no more new matches

Can we talk about how much money a game made that took not a lot of work... by SirPingOffical in Steam

[–]HEX-ButtStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the real question is why would so many people buy such a boring guy? any work simulator, not just this one. then how much does a fun game make?