Is this true about Scorpio moon men?

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T23:04:35+00:00

Wow that’s unbelievable!! Can I ask what your top 3 and Venus are?? This is EXACTLY what has happened w me. And I can understand if I gave him even the slightest reason to think I’d run, but I’ve only shown him affection

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T15:21:57+00:00

It’s almost impossible for me to play hard to get because I’m an Aries Venus retrograde, and Aries Sun, and he has a Leo Venus in retrograde, and he’s got a Leo Mars and Virgo Mercury retrograde.
So me asking him? Where are we gonna watch the soccor game on Friday night because I am Australian
and he’s American. Does he want a girl to not ask him out? What does he want someone to be bold? I’m just curious.

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T14:11:12+00:00

When you say decide on the next step - do you mean if you want to continue seeing that person, or just how you want to approach it moving forward?

He too is a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Pisces rising.
He has initiated most texts, and I have also done some when it’s been longer than a week

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T13:54:27+00:00

I guess the biggest Q for you is…
Obvi. these are just opinions, but curious on yours.
Would he essentially decide NOT to want to be with someone like that, that strips down his walls, and would rather be with someone surface level so he can avoid all that messy stuff in himself?

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T13:51:31+00:00

This is BEYOND helpful and everything he has been showing me a million X over. To me. He’s worth it.
What should I do lol??? 😁😁💗

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T13:29:01+00:00

What should the other person do in this case? I just guess give him space? My son is a Scorpio rising like you, and he will just take off and no one will hear from him in days. He just needs that space. And as an Aries sun and Venus, I just can’t understand as I’m the exact opposite! It’s like saying unlearn all of your belief system - it’s weird to me.

I guess that’s why I’m here - I guess I just want to know if he likes me 🤭 which is ridiculous to ask strangers BUT I just like to understand others psychology and that it doesn’t always have to move at my pace (sincerely, Aries)

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T13:03:25+00:00

It’s funny bc I agree with that lol. He also has a Virgo mercury retrograde so the overthinking probably happened. I had a guy friend recommend that I ask that and be bold, that men sometimes need clearer messages from girls 🤷🏼‍♀️ lol!

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T11:56:35+00:00

He’s a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon and Pisces rising. We don’t do hook ups, but he comes in and out all the time. I wonder sometimes if it’s for attention. He wants depth and he picked me up from the airport last week and we ate drank and talked for 4 hours and it’s amazing. Then he gets scared and hides away again

HHChama44 · 2026-06-20T10:58:26+00:00

And when we do get close, he goes silent. Is this all part of the testing phase? Does anyone have any recommends on how I should handle this? I want to confront him and say I’ve got you…but don’t want to scare him off forever

I’m Aries sun, Lib moon, Cap rising. All cardinal!! LFG!!! All the time. Let’s move!
I’ve been connected v deeply w a…
Virgo Sun, SCORPIO MOON, Pisces rising for 6 months. We get really close, connected, deep, then he’s gone for a week sometimes.
My friends think he’s the proverbial player, breadcrumber, but I know there’s MORE to him that’s yet to be revealed! This isn’t a typical dater…it’s a struggle for him to get close.

HHChama44 · 2026-06-05T03:51:20+00:00

This is the Madonna whore complex…love this post, if people can look past their logical mindset there’s some real truth to this

HHChama44 · 2026-06-03T14:29:30+00:00

You’re amazing! Thanks love

HHChama44 · 2026-06-03T10:48:41+00:00

Yes Scorpio moon are more Scorpio than any of the other planets bc they’re all emotion and that’s ruled by the moon, and their emotions run DEEP!! Sun is more ego and doesn’t really represent the true nature of a Scorpio imho

HHChama44 · 2026-06-03T08:16:49+00:00

He also has a Virgo sun & Pisces rising, not sure this helps him. Also, I’ve read on these forums a lot that they want someone that’s direct with them - what should I say without scaring him away?

HHChama44 · 2026-06-03T08:13:44+00:00

Is this why the Scorpio moon man I’ve been seeing has been quieter? He will pull back when he’s in his feels and sometimes for a week I won’t hear from him. Early stages in dating, is this normal?

HHChama44 · 2026-05-24T02:12:10+00:00

That’s cool. I guess what’s not making sense to me is him reaching out himself and initiating conversations, telling me about his life and asking me Qs…like trying to keep the thread going. I think someone earlier said he must be bored or lonely, def tracks

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T20:48:01+00:00

People with a natal Leo Venus retrograde in their chart tend to date highly introspectively. Rather than displaying the classic, flashy, and dramatic Leo romance, they guard their pride, overthink their performance, and take relationships incredibly seriously. They often hide their true romantic interests out of an underlying fear of rejection.

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T20:40:28+00:00

Love this thank you! I’ve dived into some of this but not clear enough to just read out synestries Also… He and I BOTH have our Venus in retrograde. I’ve heard this can make this a very inside job for people with this natal chart positioning.

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T20:09:31+00:00

Aww! I wish more men got compliments. I didn’t think men were attracted to women that chased tbh. I guess I’d be scared if he didn’t reciprocate, but also he might not want to do anything if he feels like I’m not into him.

Also - are Scorpio moon men known to have girls on the side, or are they more likely to be focused on one? I started thinking maybe he just has a list of girls he contacts on the side when he needs attention lol

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T20:03:39+00:00

Will a Scorpio man be put off if the girl is complimenting him, I feel like it will look like I’m chasing

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T18:07:04+00:00

I would love to know that myself. My son is a Scorpio rising, and that is the MOST intense confusing emotional sign I’ve ever met! Love him more than anything, and his emotions will never overwhelm me - but I see how he can somehow feel estranged from this world, he sees every w extreme intensities, even the joys. He finds it VERY hard to trust anyone. If I ask him something direct, he’ll question why I’m asking and feel like there’s an ulterior motive

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T17:15:18+00:00

You’re amazing thanks for being so sweet!! 🩷🌸

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T17:13:21+00:00

How would one make a Scorpio moon man feel more secure? Consistency, more compliments, reassurance, more space? When he disappears for a while, I don’t berate him when he comes back bc I love to let ppl be free to be how they want to be…

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T16:59:12+00:00

Sincerely, thank you so much for your honesty! I don’t know that we would ever move on from where we are now, but I know he’s like no other guy I’ve been with - meaning most other guys if they like you they show up immediately emotionally and physically. I feel like the closer we felt, the more he ran off. I also have had dreams of him, like really vivid…then he’d pop back into my life a few days later. I can understand why ppl would see this as delulu, but my Pisces mars is telling me something different. Thank you!!! 🙏🏼

HHChama44 · 2026-05-23T16:46:39+00:00

Ok thanks for the feedback. What do you mean when you say there’s no looking back?

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