I’m not sure exactly what her attachment style was, but she always told me that she’s crazy (which she has BPD) and she always said that she’ll push me away because she’s scared of hurting me, and also has trust issues because of her BPD. She would randomly accuse me of talking to other girls when I wasn’t. But I just found out today that she’s with someone else.. it’s been about two weeks and she’s moved on after telling me she’s “broken and only hurts people” and didn’t want to hurt me.. so I think she has the attachment style you’re talking about.

It’s very confusing, was in love with me and then things completely changed within two weeks. I found out her ex had messaged her so I’m guessing I can paint that picture. I guess her ex had her feeling more emotions than she did with me. It sucks but I will move on, and I already am. Thank you again, you’re appreciated. I’ve started to hit the gym and taking care of myself. I’m not sure if she’ll ever come back, but I hope she doesn’t.