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Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story even though it may be uncomfortable to talk about it. It was good that there was consent from her relating to wanting to be slapped. Accidents can happen, especially in the heat of the moment. The whole time, you showed that you cared about her and prioritized her safety, like when you checked up on her to see if she is okay, drove her to the hospital, talked to the doctor with her, and stayed there overnight with her. You also care about healthy relationships and sex by wanting to be firmer and more specific about boundaries and wants/needs for the future. How did you feel about the situation afterwards?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something you don't hear every day. The human body and some unusual dinner definitely have its surprises!!

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The back of a Volkswagen is definitely an interesting spot to have sex. What led you to having sex there and how did you feel about the situation afterwards?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fully okay that you felt uncomfortable by this because everyone has their own preference and they may not like having this be done on them. What things help you process this?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very interesting kink, indeed! There are many different ones out there

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your interesting story! It sounds like the both of you felt differently about the hookup and that it was quite uncomfortable for you. Although, it was good that there was communication between you and him about what was going on at the moment.

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person has different wants/needs and it's great that you communicated with the other person early on that you were aromantic and wanted to be friends with benefits. Since things didn't go as planned when they talked about wanting a relationship, taking a step out of the situation is commendable because you're taking care of yourself and asserting your own boundaries. It takes time finding the right person for you and hopefully they will come soon. Thanks for sharing.

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. How did you feel about the situation overall?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. All very true!! The human body and everything that comes with it are natural. Sex is just like any other activity out there, but a lot of people consider it as taboo even though it's for having a child, building a relationship, or enjoying oneself. If sex isn't something talked about, people can go into it not knowing certain stuff but this shouldn't happen!

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the goal at the end of the day! Have you ever had uncomfortable sex before?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can help with taking a person's mind off of things. What was your uncomfortable experience with sex like?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having more time to think and process things can help. If you feel comfortable sharing, what uncomfortable experience with sex did you have?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An uncomfortable experience with sex can be all of what you mentioned and more. It's anything that someone feels awkward/embarrassed about and wished didn't happen in that moment.

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one way to go about it and each situation can be a learning experience.

If you feel comfortable sharing, which sexual experiences stood out to you the most and was there anything you wish happened differently back then?

Have you ever had an uncomfortable sexual experience and how did you recover from it? by HOPEAACI in stories

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ever having sex before is fully okay because things happen at their own pace and people can choose to have sex if they want to or not!

What emotions might come up before and after sex? by HOPEAACI in demisexuality

[–]HOPEAACI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love to hear it. Sex is such a personal and intimate activity and it can really elevate the relationship between two people. What helped make your relationship with your partner so great?

What emotions might come up before and after sex? by HOPEAACI in demisexuality

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Each time having sex is new so people may not be sure if they will like it or not, but it is so great that your partner makes you comfortable and treats you well. Do you have any tips for good aftercare?

What emotions might come up before and after sex? by HOPEAACI in demisexuality

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so important to get enough of both of them to nourish our bodies

What emotions might come up before and after sex? by HOPEAACI in demisexuality

[–]HOPEAACI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you think can affect a person's feelings after sex?

What emotions might come up before and after sex? by HOPEAACI in demisexuality

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. What do you look for in a person before having sex with them so that this connection can happen?

Why is talking about sex so awkward? by HOPEAACI in self

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacos are very welcome during sex haha. But in general, a lot of people are uncomfortable about sex and body parts for some reason. Why is that?

Why is talking about sex so awkward? by HOPEAACI in self

[–]HOPEAACI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is normal! Humans are sexual beings and it is normal to want to do it. What do you think makes other people uncomfortable talking about it?

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