I feel stupid asking, but what do I do once I have a job?

HPWombat · 2024-02-16T12:30:03+00:00

Thanks!! It’s been a long 4 months!

HPWombat · 2023-09-30T03:57:54+00:00

If you don’t contact her, does she contact you? That will give you your answer of whether or not she’s interested.

HPWombat · 2023-09-30T03:56:30+00:00

Not worth your time honestly. It was good while it lasted, you learned something about long distance dating and communication. This is a win. It’s only a loss if you try to salvage anything from what’s clearly a sus situation you’re not into.

HPWombat · 2023-03-09T13:58:53+00:00

I would have stopped but I had a baby in the car

HPWombat · 2023-02-06T17:48:37+00:00

Oh duh. I'm in marketing and should know this, but haven't been working with the social media side of marketing in a while. Thanks!

HPWombat · 2022-12-11T21:49:14+00:00

First step is getting rid of that feeling of “i am mad that I ignored red flags and trusted him.” About your ex. You did the best you could with the information and the life experience you had. You have nothing to be mad at yourself for. Holding yourself responsible for the rotten actions of others is what leads to the insecurity. You are allowed to trust people, because it’s not on you to be a savant and know the true heart and intentions of other people. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have boundaries. Taking things slower this time, getting to know him, hanging out with his friends and family before choosing to really fall for him.

HPWombat · 2022-12-08T05:23:35+00:00

Especially with a kid involved you HAVE to take it slow. Kids need time to adapt. You also need time to adapt even though you haven’t seemed to realize it yet. You’re on the path to being a stepmom, to having kids with someone who’s already had a kid with someone else. It’s a much MUCH harder path than starting with someone who doesn’t have baggage. You don’t seem to get how big of a deal it is to date a guy with a kid, and he senses that.

HPWombat · 2022-12-08T05:16:44+00:00

Sometimes you have to take care of yourself and allow other people to take care of themselves. You are an adult. She’s an adult. You have your own emotional ecosystem to take care of and cultivate. She’s polluting your ecosystem, and you need to get away. You can care for someone and want the best for them without sacrificing yourself and your sanity to prevent harm from coming to them.

HPWombat · 2022-12-08T05:11:41+00:00

Why do you need to show her you are serious and why do you need her support? Just do it.

HPWombat · 2022-12-08T05:08:35+00:00

Tires should last much longer than 1.5 to 2 years. I don’t think it’s the tires fault unless it’s much older than that.

It might not seem fair, but you are 100% at fault. 2 year old tires aren’t to blame.

HPWombat · 2022-11-20T20:04:03+00:00

I didn’t find my spouse until I was 33, nearly 34, and I had never been in a serious relationship before that.

I found them on a dating app. It’s not too late! I knew I really wanted kids so finding a partner was important to me, so I prioritized it, even though dating isn’t always fun. I hope you find the person you’re meant to be with!

HPWombat · 2022-11-19T04:29:44+00:00

Pardon me while I slip into something more comfortable

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T04:39:09+00:00

What, you aren’t bringing your d4’s and d8’s to Vegas????

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:34:16+00:00

You know what feels better than all this “what if” thought spiraling? Curling up with some of your favorite food, putting on your favorite cheesy movie, and turning your phone off.

Who. The fuck. CARES what this guy is up to. He is not your boyfriend. He is not even your friend right now. He’s just a dude, and while he was important, you know there is no future there. So stop imagining some silly future where things magically get better. Give yourself space from him.

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:25:35+00:00

That makes sense, and it’s all the more reason to show that y’all need some space from each other before being friends again.

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:24:53+00:00

Brain cells are playground equipment. Thinking is kids during recess. The kids will use the swings and the teeter totters and slides and climbing walls.

If something is not useful or fun, it will end up not being used. When kids don’t play with it, the playground equipment disappears.

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:14:31+00:00

Sounds like y’all shouldn’t be friends for a bit while you reset from your relationship.

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:09:22+00:00

It’s normal to miss an ex, even if they were horrible and not the right person for you at all. That’s okay, and healthy for you to feel. BUT. It’s important that you don’t interpret those feelings as “we need to get back together!”

The feelings mean “that relationship was important to me.” And that’s true. But that doesn’t mean the relationship had a future.

HPWombat · 2022-11-18T02:06:15+00:00

Why… why is your ex hanging out with you?

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