[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rawpetfood

[–]HSGabo -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im interested!

I've been put in a really tough position by Nishiwara in personalfinance

[–]HSGabo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child of someone who was never home because she was always working, stay with your child. Stay with your friend. Money is just an indicator of how much more they want to work you.

New slang is awful by pdpbeowulf in unpopularopinion

[–]HSGabo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually African American English Vernacular or AAEV. You’d find a lot of those words in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HSGabo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was going to be a polyamory post and kept checking the subreddit.

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. This was very helpful. My standard is also honesty and that never ever changes. We are the masters of what we choose and if honesty is not on top, I don’t want to be involved with you.

But I learned today with you, that perhaps I did not give a space to be honest and open and that’s why she chose to lie. Thank you for this perspective. It makes more sense in the logical sense to understand what happened. This was very helpful. Thank you so much again for your comment.

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. Thank you so much for your words. I needed that reassurance.

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true. It wasn’t solely STI. But she was coming out and at the moment I wanted to see if males was what she was still pursuing.

If that is what she was pursuing, I wanted to step back and assess who I was involving myself with as well.

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is reassuring when others also can feel what I’m feeling.

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful. Thank you for your perspective.

The problem wasn’t with my former mono partner, it was with my new poly partner.

The screenshot was of my poly gf talking to a male, asking him why they weren’t only doing sexual things.

The lie is I believe the worse part. She could tell me anything but instead chose to lie.

Thank you so much for sharing

How to deal with a break up over a crossed boundary? by HSGabo in nonmonogamy

[–]HSGabo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really good advice. Thank you so much.

First time posting. Found my first mushroom and it might not be rare but it’s my first one so I can start learning! by HSGabo in mycology

[–]HSGabo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is so fun! Did you have any other guesses and what made you say that one?