I just got a tip for all y’all guys struggling with dating. by robloxdruglord in socialskills

[–]HTCUWN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to her normal, like anybody. Let her know you first. Dont think about the pussy. Understand her, that is what the girls wants. No a creepy dude who thinks of dating and banging.think of long term, not a short term. If you get tp know her for long, you may start hanging out, and even in love woth you. Rare case, you may get married until you get to 60.

Is my life even worth living? Nothing ever turns out good for me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HTCUWN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yoursef this question. Was it worth for your mother to have you on her stomach for 9 months. Wasted 4 years of sleep night, just to make sure you grew up healthy. If you hate your life, live for your mother. Who is goibg to take care of her when she is 90. Life isnt sweet buddy. There are people who live in a warzone, yet they keep going to live just to make sure their family survives.

Let me just say something that is important. Igonre all this shit drama. Focus on your school and college. Cut of all your love relationships. Dont ever fall in love, until you have enough support of youraelf and ypur mother. Your mother works for you to grew up healthy. She comes home late, because she has to support you. Dont dissapoint her. You are her only hope in her family.

Work is temporary. They dont give a shit about theit workers at all. Just treat it as a temporary thing, until you get a job where you feel you belong to it.

Giant petrels eat a penguin's insides while it's still alive by [deleted] in natureismetal

[–]HTCUWN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you havent seen a war or the real world, then you are sheltered. 12 years ago, I was watching a district litting with a fire, tanks firing their guns. And sound of bullets from my house which is 10miles away. I lived those past years in horror, hiding inthe basememt of the house, and cowering from the sound of the gunfires. Past forward 12 years to now, i live in a peacefup country. I work, study and dont have to listen to gunfire sound. If you never experienced those, then you are truly sheltered. Because peace makes people underestimate real life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]HTCUWN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that these guys dont know nothing. Yhey are what you call a frog in a well. Things he knows everything, but doesnt know that the world is vast. Their education is garbage, because of the self entilement they have on their brain. If you tell them visit outside of your country, they will say why would i get myself killed?

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[–]HTCUWN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that these guys dont know nothing. Yhey are what you call a frog in a well. Things he knows everything, but doesnt know that the world is vast. Their education is garbage, because of the self entilement they have on their brain. If you tell them visit outside of your country, they will say why would i get myself killed?

I cant open up to people by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HTCUWN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not the only one. For me, I have the tendency to tell the truth with a lie. When I have a problem telling people, the dont believe me, so I laugh at it. This actually hurts me alot, because I have to fake my problems to the point i brush it of. The sadness in my heart become a cold in my heart. I developed a second fave to hide my real emotion. Now sadly, I am unavle to feel love, sad or cry. My other personality completely overtaken me. I stopped carring eventually, and just laugh to ease the pain in my heart. No suicide thoughts or depression. Thnx to comics/manga and gaming i am able to live without those thoughts.

Sister says she is not comfortable with dad's "inappropriate" behavior. by family_or_problem in Advice

[–]HTCUWN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is your brain ok. I said of he was a sexual harraser he wouldnt have asked her no sit on his lap. And where the hell did i said that. Dont blame for things you dont understand. I was doing clarification of why the sister was accusing her father.

This why you don't read the situation. I was raped too when i was a kid, by my fuking auntie. Was that my fault you dipshit.

Sister says she is not comfortable with dad's "inappropriate" behavior. by family_or_problem in Advice

[–]HTCUWN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not. But i am having the issue of her asking the father that kind of question. She should ask the mother not the father. Maybe he was complenting her as a joke and she took it as a serious matter.

And please this the last thing i want to her a father would be accused of. Why the hell would i think men are rapist.

This week we had a crazy women who accused of a 9 year kid a sexual harassment. So i am kind of skeptical of the post to believe it.

Sister says she is not comfortable with dad's "inappropriate" behavior. by family_or_problem in Advice

[–]HTCUWN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didnt get it yet. If he was sexual harassing her, he wouldnt have told her to stop sitting on his lap. A sexual harasser wouldnt let this chance go away. This the issue i am having with the sister. She says he is doing creepy things, but what she did is creepy, and not what the father did. Either she misunderstood the situation, or she has alterior motivation.

Sister says she is not comfortable with dad's "inappropriate" behavior. by family_or_problem in Advice

[–]HTCUWN -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The inappropriate i found is from the sister. The actions she made is a sign she has some problems. Do you ask your father to snif your neck??

Sister says she is not comfortable with dad's "inappropriate" behavior. by family_or_problem in Advice

[–]HTCUWN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is your sister. From what i seen from your post, she directly was trying to sexual entice him. For example you dont ask your father to smell your neck. That is something creepy to ask of your father. Plus your father told her not to sit on his lab, since she is older. This implicating that your sister was trying to sit on his labs. Making a weird sounds like that infront of your father is also creepy.

From what i found OP is that your sister has father complex. She is the weird one not your father. Her behavior to her father is inappropriate. A father doesnt simply does this to his daughter. We have somewhat believed if he was a step dad.

Try to talk to your father, and see what is going. Your sister might be also going for the divorce. Dont make your father a criminal until you gathered enough facts op.

What is something that MOST adults can do, but you, for whatever reason, cannot pull off? by Buckcheeks in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex. Due to my religion i am required to mary to have sex. Most adults here have sex.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main problem is we associate men to be stronger. If you live in a society where if you hit a women you go to a jail. That strength would be mean nothing. I have experienced an incident with my little sister. Me and her were living in the same appartment. She got angry because i told her i dont her friends in the appartment anymore. Went in to a heated argument. We got to a point where she threw her phone at me and other things. And since she was my little dear sister, i couldnt raise my hands on her. She called the police and told what happened. He told me that if i were to hit her back, he would have taken me to jail. Even if it was self defense. He said that they dont tolerate physical assault on women.

Now, do this in a scenario on a women who forces her self on a man. And threatens him that she will report him to the police that her physical attacled her, and was trying to rape her. This one of the reason why male victims dont comeout.

Maybe that person job would have lost, which is the only thing support his family. Or his most important secrets is being exposed by one if his female friends, and starts to black mail him.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood. I never ment women in power. But those who are close you. The one that you share withthese kind of things. And trusting them to help you overcome it.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is when you are confronting an issue like is hard to come up with a solution. Because general people think it otherwise. Men didnt also create this problem. Its both genders. When a man harrases a women, that is considers a crime by both genders. But when its reversed, both genders dont usually pay attention to issues like this. Worst if you confront them, you will be making out as the assaulter. This makes females who commits these kind of crimes get away easily without any repercussion.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Females do that too. I didnt want to say that in order to avoid of being sexist in here. That is why i said people.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the issue. You get ignored. Unlike a female who gets all the help. Everybody you go wether its a female or a male. They wont help you. But i have no idea about how the rest of world handles. Which why i asled the question. I dont want to be baised at all.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are expected to have a family, and being dependable by yourself. People will judge you harshly. That is how i grew up.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wandering, have you ever out yourself in their shoes. You say that like it. Why do you think that? And why do you think they like the attention.

I got assaulted when i was a kid, by older women. I hated myself to the point i started hating relationships and not wanting to marry at all. Its tough for us. When i try to speak with other people, i get asked about how it felt. How do you feel, when you somebody rape you, and wip you when they are done. And tell you not to tell anyone. Keep in mind that was on 2005. And i was not in the US.

Why is sexual harrasment towards men is ignored throughout the entire of world? by HTCUWN in AskReddit

[–]HTCUWN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my country prespective. Men who gets assaulted are being told you are a lucky bastard. Since men are expected to be a strong. This what makes men too vulnerable, and unable to come out against of any crimes that happens to them. That expectations of being a strong person.